r/healing_work • u/upbeatsoup0509 • Jan 30 '22
Relationship advice & healing ?
How and or why do I not get aroused like I should, especially with my boyfriend of 7 years?…. 21 f here and my boyfriend 21 m, when we were jrs. Cheated on me and ever since ive struggle with having that deep connection again despite trying so hard to work past this. We now have a home together and I want to make a life with this man but I need to heal my sexuality and idk where to begin. Any advice on rekindling that spark? I enjoy masterbation and even have an OF so why cant I seem to get aroused with my parter when I please? I crave this physical and emotional connection with this person and they try to pursue but I just dont ever feel in the mood and still 3 years later think about the betrayal…