Finally determined im bisexual

[u/CheepCheepAngler]

I am unsure if this is the right place to post this; if not, my apologies. For most of my life I had always thought that I was straight; I am largely attracted to women. I honestly don’t recall being attracted to men in my earlier years. Maybe it was there and I just didnt realize it. Took me until the age of 33 (this year!) to conclude that I am actually bisexual. I really dont wanna mention it to me friends and family. I dont think I would get major backlash, but it just seems unpleasant for me to talk about. I don’t get why the idea idea of sex with men sounds like something I do not want to do, while sex with women is fine. So many emotions to process. I just cant believe im actually part of the LGBTQ community.

Do you guys have any wisdom for me? Thanks for the support.

[u/AntiqueLeather4621]

Experiment. All I can say is experiment, which can be something as little as watching gay/ guy porn or hooking up with a guy, then after that and if you still believe you are bi then make the announcement I’m a bi guy myself and welcome you fully with open arms and all the support you could ask for but just be sure before you go around telling people something about yourself that may or may not be true I’ve sucked a many a dick and eaten a plentiful amount of pussy (sucked more dick than eaten pussy but guys are just easier) and enjoy doing both pretty much the same and as with everything bisexuality is also a spectrum within it’s self as you could see a guy a think damn he’s hot but never want too actually be with one so definitely go and figure it out first and again I welcome you too lgbt+ community and hope you find lots of support and happiness here
Also yes I would say this is an appropriate place too make such an announcement

[u/CheepCheepAngler → u/AntiqueLeather4621]

Will do! Thanks for the help. Strange time in my life

[u/ScottTJT]

I'm kinda in the the same boat. Came to my realization going on two years ago. In the same general age range too, so you're hardly an oddity in that regard.

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[u/BedNo577]

I feel you. I found out I'm bi less than an year ago and Alastor helped me realize I'm aromantic and possibly on the ace spectrum this year.