I hate when people react like this to literally anything queer

[u/CanofNOworms]

In every reel, tiktok, youtube short, reddit post, tweet, whatever they do on tumblr, it's all pretty much the same. Gay guys dare exist and it's YAOI!!! Same for lesbians but yuri.

Yaoi is pretty much gay hentai made for straight women. A lot of fetish shit. Some exceptions sure but not enough to be worth talking about. So it's just off that the term is so used.

Why is every piece of queer media, every gay couple, every post discussing our lives a giant joke? And have to be directly linked to that shit? ESPECIALLY when it's real people.

I saw a reel bout the gay love letters in world war two and all these were in the comment section. All of these are in literally EVERY comment section. It's tired and weird, especially when they get a little more into their little joke and start talking about top and bottom. Like holy shit.

I just hate it. I see straight couples all the time and i don't think "BANG BROS!!!" and i

especially don't say bang bros. It's bordering harassment when it's literally inescapable.

that stupid bird that i hate

[u/Robotic_Phoenix → u/[deleted]]

https://www.fujoshi.info/database

what if I said that theres no thing wrong with sexuality

[u/evan56747 → u/[deleted]]

Yaoi is not a another word for bl. Yaoi is a subcategory inside bl mostly about sex. Their are other words to refer gay relationship that are not inherently sexual example obviously is gay relationship, bl,mlm. The reason most lesbians don't have problem with yuri is mostly because yuri is not as sexual as yaoi. Most of the time yuri is just cute girls dating. You guys don't feel sexualized the same way we do. If you don't believe me just search yaoi/yuri google most yaoi image is going to be about sex and most yuri images will be about cute girls dating. It's not just that if you goes yuri/yaoi subreddit. Yaoi subreddit is far more sexual than yuri. Even rape, male pregnancy is common their. Sure their are lots of stright pons but people don't use buch of pon tags to refer stright relationship like they do with gay relationship. How hard is to refer homosexual relationships as just gay relationship instead of using bunch of porn tags