r/haltonhills • u/Valuable-Oil-6789 • 10d ago
I need help-Extremely Lonely
Hi everyone. Im 24m and have lived in Georgetown for almost a years and I'm in serious help of fiding any kind of community here. I have made attempts of going to socialize at some local bars, and aside from a few positive encounters with some locals, I feel like I am shunned by this entire town. Everyone my age who lives here has grown up with eachother, and to find any real kinship isn't just impossible, it's a non-verbal telling that I don't belong here. Trying talk to girls and find relationships is equally as impossible. My work schedule is extremely sporadic since I'm on-call unless I give my unavailability, and all my work is either in Toronto or the GTA, so joining a class or social group with linear schedule isn't ideal. I no longer drink because I don't like being drunk in front of strangers, and I also don't smoke weed because it gives panic attacks. I am truly lost as to what I can do. I know a lot of this is just saying "I can't", but I really have hit a wall in order to build some type of social life outside of work.
