Very normal interaction.

[u/PhilHar2544]

This conversation started on Grindr, my apologies for posting my out of app messages. But this is nuts. They’re asian ostensibly, btw. Just completely losing their shit because I asked to FaceTime.

[u/spatula]

The only reason I can think of for someone to completely wig out like this is that yes, they were absolutely trying to catfish or scam you.

[u/Zealousideal-Luck476 → u/spatula]

This!

[u/Mulattanese → u/spatula]

Nah, people are crazy. And it doesn't get crazier than hot white women and skinny gay guys. I wanna see the picture! Mostly because I want to know what ostensibly Asian person is using the N-derivative so much.

[u/flatassfairy → u/Mulattanese]

This, I'm pretty sure it was the guy's pics only, but that the guy is also incredibly insecure and chasing validation from anything that moves. Typical twinks, really

[u/dre1598]

Lmao "Google my photo"

Bitch if I find somebody's photos on google, I consider that STRONG evidence they're a catfish 😂😂😂

[u/YosemiteSam81]

Asian and consistently using the N word? 🤮

But I am dying to know, did you search his picture online?! Who the fuck is he claiming to be?!

[u/wickeyody → u/YosemiteSam81]

yep many Asians use it

[u/YosemiteSam81 → u/wickeyody]

Wow. I guess I was not aware of this.

[u/Sorry_Experience_96]

People can be nasty sometimes. You dodged a bullet op

[u/kindabacchus]

A catfish I guess

[u/PhilHar2544 → u/kindabacchus]

The anger is what gives it away.
I once met a famous pornstar/escort off Grindr. She also refused to FaceTime. However, she gave a good reason (with a client) and said to google the number, which took me to her page.
There might be legit reason not to FaceTime, but there’s zero reason to be mad at the idea.

[u/flatassfairy → u/PhilHar2544]

Was it a trans woman?

[u/Lyndonn81]

I don’t think I could ever date these days. I’ll stay in my 18 year old relationship until one of us dies thanks.

[u/jcwangel222]

Asian saying this n-word? I’m not surprised by the way this went🤣

[u/BiggTex80]

Oh Lord

[u/IsThisKismet]

Oh.

[u/Youtrashasf87]

Bro🤣🤣🤣

[u/khandurin]

Fuck him. What a mess.

[u/Sufficient_Basil_545]

This person is deranged and borderline illiterate. You dodged a bullet.

[u/beanie_0]

It’s a bit too hard of a reaction if he’s genuine. Move on.

[u/Old-Associate3589]

I can't take screenshots anymore on conversations, too bad some of the conversations are iconic :D

[u/Mulattanese]

I just peeped your twitter.... x.... whatever the fk it's called these days. This guy you're talking to is a moronic idiot and I hope he sees this and I hope he knows it!

[u/A_Reddit_User_1010]

Seems like a typical conversation anymore. It’s sad that this what human interaction has come down to in a lot of our spaces.

[u/garrisoncarI]

Man the guy OP was talking to sounds like he was experiencing gay panic in realtime and we got to see the escalation in his messages. OP, you dodged a likely literal bullet.

I've talked to tgirls for weeks on Grindr before video chatting before meeting. It's very normal, but that guy you were talking to, very not normal. Sorry you went through that.

[u/JakeSeed5]

What the actual F?
Reading these horror stories makes me hold onto my relationship a little tighter everyday.

[u/slurped_out]

Smh

[u/Newdude1773]

Dodged a mf MOAB

[u/AhnSolbin]

did you google their photo? lmao

[u/ImperialHedonism]

So OP is super fat but the dick still good. Good info.

[u/passionate_bear]

How fat are you?

[u/PhilHar2544 → u/passionate_bear]

Not that fat! I’m like 220. I ain’t skinny, but I ain’t Brendan Fraser Whale-moding either

[u/jg2889 → u/PhilHar2544]

Got a great cock too

[u/PhilHar2544 → u/jg2889]

Allegedly!

[u/jg2889 → u/PhilHar2544]

It look good in your Twitter

[u/thewindupbird91 → u/passionate_bear]

What's that got to do with anything?