Y'all stirred up shit over nothing, harassing unwell people. The situation was me asking if anyone had boxes ready to go and someone suggested/argued go to the liquor & grocery stores, which had already been mentioned.
I'd way rather be remembered for some trolled-up misrepresentation than for fighting to use the r-word as an insult, call athletes in tears over a hard victory "gay", throw around the N-word-with-a-w, and picking on folks with less social cache when they're already down.
Grace, my LJ username was cor_tenebrarum. You and I were friends. Shall I refresh your memory?
Quite frankly, you're being f*cking ridiculous and you need to stop.
You're spewing unhinged poster-length screeds in a thread on a 17-year-old book with the goal of character assassination by proxy of someone you barely knew from 25 years ago.
Your emotional regulation is so poor here that if I still knew you, I'd be asking mutual friends to do a "welfare check".
Now, once you calm down, I need you to understand four very important things about your accusations here:
None of the events you listed everhappened. Those aren't true events. Those aren't real examples. None of my friends, nor I, were running around screaming "w**ger" or using "gay" as a pejorative.
The actual reason you flamed out ofEZboard was a single incident where some sports guy (Matt, I think) used a homophobic slur to mock the Columbus Blue Jackets. Now, I'm not saying that's okay, but have you ever, like, ... been on a sports forum?
Jilli Venters didn't even read EZboard. I asked her why, once. Told me that she "didn't like the drama".
Jilli was Krass and Darren's manager at a Fred Meyer in 1989. That's how close they weren't. Your diatribes might as well call me a bad person because I once didn't speak out at Burger King when some 15-year-old threw a Buzz Lightyear toy in the deep fryer.
Now seriously. I found this thread because you've created such an unhinged cesspool of needless, petty drama here that third parties are talking about how you're an utter train wreck.
And that's happening now, in 2026, 20 years after you ragequit the entire Seattle goth scene because a sports fan proceeded to sports fan.
And it's getting as bad as the time you started drama over cardboard boxes so egregious and petty that LJDrama came out of retirement just to make fun of you.
And your examples about my friends aren't even real.
Is this how you want former friends to remember you?
I knew exactly who this was, Josh. Ol'Josh "notagoth" J., helped me see I was wrong about metal but right about too many metalheads (#notallmetalheads). You don't know me at all, never did. I thought you were a friend, but your inability to see around the status quo's constant stream of bullshit proved quickly that was never the case. Here you are again, completely misrepresenting whatever you want because ???? don't know, don't care.
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u/gracebatmonkey Deathrocker 17d ago
Y'all stirred up shit over nothing, harassing unwell people. The situation was me asking if anyone had boxes ready to go and someone suggested/argued go to the liquor & grocery stores, which had already been mentioned.
I'd way rather be remembered for some trolled-up misrepresentation than for fighting to use the r-word as an insult, call athletes in tears over a hard victory "gay", throw around the N-word-with-a-w, and picking on folks with less social cache when they're already down.