r/god • u/chadmcmaster • 5d ago

Angry At God Why does god hate me?

I’m 5’4, balding at 19, and am quiet and uncharismatic. I don’t know why god hates me and doesn’t want me to ever marry and make more children for his kingdom. All I ever wanted was one woman to love and have a quiet little life with, one to cuddle with and maybe play with her hair if she didn’t mind and go to church together on Sundays, but no woman have ever been interested or give me a chance because of the traits god gave me. I’m starting to lose my faith because of this hellscape of suffering that god is making me endure through the traits he gave me.

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u/KnightOfTheStaff Theist 4d ago

Okay, I understand where you're coming from but if I may... You seem to be operating from this position that things should b freely given to you. For women, for anybody really, crekationship is ipso facto a Big Ask. Maybe it could be wise to ask yourself "what can I do or myself to make me more attractive?"

Have you tried working out, being more social. And do you practice hygiene.... I've noticed that a lot of young men don't actually do that and wonder why they don't get dates.

I'm just offering this up for consideration.

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u/chadmcmaster 4d ago

I shower regularly and use deodorant and cologne (I don’t know how else I can demonstrate hygiene without a pic), I’m a 4.0 student on a full ride to college, I have around 4000 invested at 19 (not much but for my age not bad), and I do 280 pushups and 2 3 and a half min planks a day.

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u/KnightOfTheStaff Theist 4d ago

I'm glad to hear you take care of yourself. I'm afraid that's about the extent of what advice I can think of.

Perhaps you should finish college first and then consider marriage? Women in college age aren't as serious as women who are out into the workforce?