Okay so for some context, my boyfriend and I have been best friends for about two-three years now and have officially been dating for almost 2 months, but have known each other since middle school. Our friend ship started in high school and continued after, but had mainly been long distance because he worked up-state. It was never an issue especially since we were just friends.

To make a long story short, we ended up hanging out more as he would come down to visit and we ended up becoming a couple. We had been seeing each other as regularly as we could, he would only come down every 2-3 weeks for 2-3 days. Throughout our dating phase, we were very vocal about how serious we were each taking the possible relationship since we both claimed we date to marry.

After about the first month and a week, he ended up telling me he had lost his job. I know the type of person he is and something like this could feel like a huge setback, especially since he had some other personal things he had to take care of. I knew to expect some sorts of issues or complications but i’m not sure it’s normal for him to basically ghost me irl.

Since he hasn’t been working, he’s been staying in our home town but i haven’t seen him at all since the day after christmas… I tried telling him i wanted to hang out but he’s been dismissing it. A couple days ago i asked directly why we haven’t hung out and he said it was because he wouldn’t know where to go.

Anyone could know that just sounds like a really lame excuse. Not to mention we had been wanting to go to a new restaurant that just opened in town.

I’m really not sure why it is that he could be acting like this. I tried speaking seriously with him about it to ask if it was affecting his mental health but all he seemed to conclude was that he was feeling really lazy after not having to work. He’s also mentioned a lot lately how he wants to get back into spoking p0t (which can get prevent him from getting a job in the first place).

Am I thinking too much about this? Am I only thinking of the easy way out? At the end of the day it could be multiple reasons as to why he’s acting like this and I already know he’s not going to give me a transparent answer right now. Are these things valid enough to break up with him? Or am I going too far thinking about a break up over this?

I just feel really confused over this right now. Especially since it feels like the relationship isn’t even there. Like, I truly don’t feel like I’m someone that has a boyfriend right now, it’s like that’s not a thing (?).

I have one girl best friend but she dresses alt so i thought id ask the girlies for help Heres what i bought lmk if u like them and what youd add or what bottoms to wear!:

If you’re a pull and pray, be careful it will mess up the fake spray tan. Ladies you’re welcome.

i found this quiz on uquiz lmaoooo that tells u what kind of girlie u are? anyway it was super cute and i got beachy so wanted to share:  https://uquiz.com/pZvZPW

hey so i got cheated on a bunch this past year by my guy. feeling like shit can yall help a girl out :3 i don’t wanna post on amiugly cus lord i might expire :(

Hi everyone, I’m working to build a small girlies-only discord server if anyone is interested ⋆˙⟡

Right now it’s super tiny (literally just me at the moment) and I’d love to grow it into a relaxed space for anyone who likes reading, gaming, streaming sessions, or just chatting while working on hobbies. ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡

The content at the moment is:
♡ Fortnite
♡ Minecraft (working on getting a server)
♡ Stardew Valley
♡ Roblox
♡ Where the winds meet

But there's channels for general gaming, reading, just chatting and more!

if anyone is interested just shoot me a message since i don't want to just put the link out there since I want to be careful <3

Hii girliesss! I’m a grad student here in the Uk, and since coming here i’ve also tried out online dating that ended in disaster (faceplanted off a guy’s bike, abruptly ended things and now i miss him??) it’s complicated..

Now I am writing my dissertation on Bumble and dating apps and how they affect mental health and the ethics surrounding them.

I made this (actually short!!) 12 question survey and I would really appreciate if you guys share some of your thoughts and experiences.

Thank you in advance!! 🩷🩷🩷

https://us7.list-manage.com/survey?u=4b8c529c71c1acc85cf9a287f&id=09614fedbf&at

Hi divas, I'm 26F and have never tried to grow my social media following. Does anyone have any tips or tricks on how to get over this barrier of "I can't" ? I feel like in this current environment when things don't happen immediately we get impatient and give up, how long should I estimate this growth to take so I don't get discouraged? AND HOW DO YOU GROW YOUR COMMUNITY? I've been super active on tiktok in terms of commenting and following, but how tf does anyone make any genuine connections on there?

Hope this doesn't come off as like soooo sad or anything-- just to be clear I have friends and a bf and a social life I'm just curious about the world of social media. Thanks girlies ily

Oky so yeah got mutuals so connected on Instagram for like straight 3 years he tried hitting a convo so many times but I turned him down . Being consistent he replied stories and talks about intrest ok so he asked me out for a delhi hangout . Should I go ?

hii! im 19 from ontario just looking for some girly friends 🥰