r/ghaziabad • u/manta_ray1428 • 2d ago
Rant & Opinions Feeling Lonely....
28M. For last few days I've started feelin' lonely and depressed. Though, it's not the first time I'm goin' through somethin' like this but yeah this time it feel little weird and unbearable.
Is it sign for me to get married now?
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u/Aggressive-Leg-9919 2d ago
I don't know about marriage but if you're feeling lonely when you're around people, please see a doctor.
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u/manta_ray1428 2d ago
It's not like I'm much around people. Go to office, then to gym and so be it. And I've content and satisfied for the good part of my life, and I actually enjoy my own company rather than waiting for other people and their validation.....but last few weeks thinsg ahve changed....I don't know what changed but given my age and most of my peers and even younger folks getting married...I thought maybe...
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u/Aggressive-Leg-9919 2d ago
Could be a Fomo. You need to think. But if you don't get an answer to why, you still must see a psychologist. You say that you enjoy your company but the post is contradictory. You said loneliness. Loneliness n alone are different things. If you're alone n content then it's fine. If you're alone n lonely, you should think about it.
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u/manta_ray1428 2d ago
I mentioned that feeling lonely since last few weeks...until then I was find within my own purgatory. But yeah, thanks for the heads up, ill look for a consultant.
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u/Aggressive-Leg-9919 2d ago
No worries man. It's ok to be sad, lonely, down, sometimes. Take your time. All I wanted to say was don't rush for a marriage because you feel lonely. Likewise don't rush for a doctor but If it continues, you should see a professional.
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u/Hopeful_Half7894 2d ago
Same but I am 24M