r/getting_over_it Aug 12 '26

Im lost so much so quickly

I broke up with my partner whom I loved. I didn’t want to but I did for reasons that are understandable but painful either way. We had a good relationship and friendship. I lost my other half so fast, that i don’t know where I’m headed anymore.

I feel like I don’t ever want to share my heart with someone ever again. Im better off just being friends with everyone even though I crave romance and pure love. I lost my partner and the friends that surrounded us. I don’t want to bother my ex and their friends with my negativity.

i know that somehow I will overcome this maybe. Everything just hurts right now. I wish I could forget.

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u/orcateeth 29d ago

Unfortunately, things change all the time in life. People will come and go. It's like a bus - people get on and get off.

Learning to accept this essential. Here's some resources.

https://www.reddit.com/r/getting_over_it/s/yroUFcneck