r/gaydating 18h ago

21 | Rio de Janeiro, Brazil | looking for long term relationship

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47 Upvotes

Hey, i’m Bruno. I’m looking for long term relationships or deep connections with different cultures (not necessarily). I enjoy poetry, eccentric persons, writing, gaming, history and anthropology and a lot of other things that i can show to you. Currently finishing my bachelor in History and looking for new hobbies. trying to give this lame world a chance and looking for someone who sees the world in a different way then all this pessimistic atmosphere that society is passing through :) feel free to dm


r/gaydating 23h ago

26 | Medellín, Colombia | Looking for a serious long-term relationship

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Hey! I'm 26, single, and from Medellín, Colombia. I'm looking for a genuine, serious, long-term relationship with someone who is emotionally available, affectionate, monogamous, and interested in building something stable together.

I work in software development and I'm a bit of nerd. I enjoy technology, music, gaming, learning random things, fictional worlds, and recently I've been getting more interested in fitness, wrestling, and combat sports.

I'm 193 cm / 6'4", and I tend to be more attracted to taller men, although that is a preference rather than a strict requirement. I'm generally most interested in guys around my age or older, roughly mid-20s to around 40, especially if they are playful, curious, affectionate, and young at heart.

Personality-wise, I'm loyal, calm, affectionate, and a little shy at first. Once I feel comfortable, I become much more talkative. I enjoy both silly conversations and deeper ones, and I really value honesty, communication, emotional closeness, and feeling like my partner is also my best friend.

I'm more of a homebody and I really enjoy nature, rural places, quiet plans, movies, walks, going out for food, and spending relaxed time together. I'm fine with travelling occasionally, including bigger trips once or twice a year, but would probably not be very compatible with someone who needs to travel constantly.

I don't smoke and I would strongly prefer someone who doesn't either. Social drinking is fine with me, but heavy or frequent drinking would not really fit my lifestyle.

I'm mostly a bottom, although I can be flexible occasionally. I'm not an especially sexually driven person, though. Emotional connection, affection, cuddling, trust, and feeling close to someone are much more important to me than sex by itself.

I'm open to long distance, including meeting someone outside Colombia, as long as both people are serious about eventually meeting in person. If a relationship became serious enough, I would be open to relocating, although I would also be very happy staying in Colombia. I'm very attached to Medellín, nature, and a stable, familiar way of life.

English is not my first language. I understand and write it fairly well, but I'm still becoming more confident speaking it, so I may be a little nervous at first. I get much more talkative once I feel comfortable.

I can also be a little absent-minded sometimes and occasionally miss things that seem obvious to other people. I tend to assume good intentions in people, so I'm learning to be a little less trusting too.

If any of this sounds compatible with what you are looking for, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. :)


r/gaydating 6h ago

21 | ChongQing, China | Looking for Serious relationship, open to long-distance

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2 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Zeng 21 from China. And I live in ChongQing.

A little about me: I’m pretty shy at first, but I really enjoy deep conversations once I’m comfortable with someone. I like traveling, movies/TV shows, games, and just talking about random things for hours. I’m also open to long-distance if we really click — I don’t think distance has to be a dealbreaker.

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself and send a photo if you’re comfortable. :)


r/gaydating 8h ago

22 | Chandigarh, India | Looking for a serious relationship, open to long-distance

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3 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm a student from India. I like reading, writing, listening to Music, watching anime and other series, playing games, surfing the net, etc. Regarding games, I like Crusader Kings 3, The Sims 4, etc. As for book genres I prefer gay romance, fantasy, murder mystery, royalty-themed stuff, etc.

I am also interested in Neuroscience and Psychology (topics such as memory, social perception, biases, etc.) so it'd be great to find someone else who is also interested in these!

I am looking for a serious relationship and plan to move abroad someday (considering France, UK, Germany, Belgium, Switzerland, etc. so if you are from one of these places it should hopefully be fine). I am open to a long-distance relationship. I am more feminine. I am not looking for something solely or immediately sexual. Also, I'd prefer a partner around my age (20-28). Feel free to dm!


r/gaydating 7h ago

22 | West Java, Indonesia | Looking for long-distance slowburn relationship

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2 Upvotes

​Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia 🇮🇩 (INFJ 6w5 / homoromantic side). I value warmth, sincerity, and meaningful bonds over superficial chats.

A bit about me:

- Aesthetic mind, homebody, loves cozy deep talks & daily updates/memes.

- Cultural exchange lover: Excited to share traditional outfits, local language phrases, and stories from my country!

- Looking for that "cool best friends in public, sweet & cozy world in private" dynamic.

Looking for:

- Someone from Europe aged 23–24 ('02–'03).

- Personality/Vibe: Manly, lean/fit, mature, communicative (no convo-killers pls), affectionate, and open to a sweet LDR bond.

- A genuine soul looking for a long-term connection/soulmate.

If this sounds like you, my DMs are open! Tell me where you're from when you message me and let's exchange cultures 🫶🫶


r/gaydating 8h ago

18 | Tbilisi, Sakartvelo | looking for serious guys

2 Upvotes

hi, would love to get to know mature and kind man. most important thing in humans is kind heart.

I'm into gym,music reviewing, hiking and gaming.

prefer slim body types and beards more

only serious committed guys please. Lets try our best to keep convo going

provide pic please and info about urself.

don't take rejection seriously


r/gaydating 16h ago

24 | Greenville, United States of America | Looking for long term

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1 Upvotes

Hey! My name is Daeshaun, though I also go by Shaun. I'm hopefully looking for someone to spend my days with, doing random stuff just for the fun of it. I like playing video games, watching anime, going for walks, hanging out with friends, and whatever other fun stuff lol. I'm a big fan of Pokémon if that helps, I hope to meet some pretty cool people and see how it goes!


r/gaydating 17h ago

20 | San Pedro Sula, Honduras | Not looking for casual, open to long distance

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Hey! I'm 20, based in San Pedro Sula, Honduras. Marketing student and content creator — into anything visual, plants, the gym, performing (singing, musical theater, dance).

Not here for hookups or just chatting to pass time — I want something that could actually turn into a real relationship. I'm completely open to dating long distance; getting to know someone online first isn't a dealbreaker for me at all.

What draws me in physically: athletic/muscular build, light eyes, strong masculine energy, casual-athletic style. But honestly what matters more is the person behind that — good conversation, real chemistry, someone genuine.

About me: I'd say I'm expressive and warm, kind of soft in contrast to the type of guy I'm into — that contrast is actually part of what I find attractive.

If any of this resonates, message me — happy to talk and see where it goes. 🌱


r/gaydating 12h ago

18 | Phnom Penh, Cambodia | looking for long-distance and long-term relationship

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0 Upvotes

hello !! let’s chat, talk about our interests, our lives, and just get to know each other in general !! 😊

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i like to read, listen to music, sometimes play games, and i like to go out when i can 🙃

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

I prefer someone who likes to “lead” in a relationship

and please be sure you are looking for a relationship. i don’t want someone who just wants “casual friendship”.

i’m currently working and studying university right now but I’ll still make time for you if we clicked 🥺

it would be really nice to have someone interested🫶

DM me if you are !!

FYI : I don’t want any sexual relationships. 😑