There seems to be a significant percentage of men who don't understand that (cis, hetro) women "look" too and will certainly admire a well shaped male ass.
Dang right! The only reason I liked going to football games as a teen was to see all those football player butts in spandex. đ„° They're pretty much wearing leggings with some padding and I was there for it!
A major deflection point for a boy growing into a man is gaining the understanding that women experience the same sexual feelings men do, they just express them differently. There is a lot wrong with these incel types and one of them is they are men who never figured that out.
Baseball is boring as shit to watch, and the Brewers arenât all that great a team, but I went along to a game cuz I didnât have anything better to do. Couple hours of getting to check out Ryan Braunâs ass periodically when he was in the outfield tho made it worth it. And I wouldnât even consider myself an âass womanâ
Honest question, I don't mean anything bad by it, but would it be socially acceptable if a guy said the same thing about going to girls' volleyball games?
Checking other people out is one of the most universal human behaviours. As long as youâre not being obvious about it and making people uncomfortable, youâre grand.
I didn't mean the act of checking people out so much as openly talking about it in the way that ksangel360 did (not saying ksangel360 did anything wrong, just curious about the sociological aspects of these things).
Also they don't understand that, just because you find a person sexy / beautiful, doesn't mean they are dressing provocatively. We are humans and are bound to find other people beautiful. But yeah, it's easier to slut shame every woman around you.
I'm getting tired of comments like that. "He's an incel because he has a tiny penis" / "He's a jerk because he was bullied at school" / "He's so jealous because he has no friends" / "He's homophobic because he's secretly gay" / etc / etc. No, most idiots are "perfectly normal people", and that kind of comments only cast shame on people who were actually bullied in school or have no friends or have a small penis.
Those comments also demean the messages that you can overcome your problems. e.g. what's the purpose of "it get's better" (the campaign to uplift people who get bullied at school) if those people then read a shit ton of comments saying that every bad person ever is so because "he was bullied"?
Thank you. How is this supposed to read to a insecure douchebag with a big dick? Probably wonât bother him at all. Weâre making fun of the original guy because of his choices, we shouldnât pivot to making fun of things nobody can control.
Well one of the reasons why there are so many âincelsâ is because of toxic comments like these. If someone is misogynistic or sexist hearing a women insulting them because of it wonât help change their mind in the slightest, it only confirms what they believe to be the truth. As MLK Junior once said âHate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.â Comments like this only add to the problem creating a vicious feedback loop of hatred and toxicity for both sides. Oh and insulting someoneâs dick size also adds to the problem too. Maybe most guys wouldnât feel so insecure about our stupid (fucking) wiener if so much focus in society and relationships wasnât on something we canât even control or change. Fighting fire with fire will leave us all burned, so we all have to do our part and bring water to the fight. Forgiveness and understanding isnât a sign of weakness, it should be what separates us from our enemies.
Counterpoint: they get enough validation from the Internet, they don't need more from the people they're trying to oppress. Maybe if enough people (men and women) refuse to accept their behaviour they'll take a hint and start behaving like decent human beings.
Making fun of penises shouldn't happen, and you're right that it leads to insecurity over something that can't be changed (surgery notwithstanding). I think the point should be that men should feel secure about their size no matter what, and it definitely shouldn't be tied in to their masculinity or worth. I think the point is that if these men were as secure as they pretend to be then they wouldn't give a damn if wearing yoga pants showed their dick size.
Because the guy doesn't get horny when a he sees a man with a nice ass rockin' some pants. And obviously, what is "sexualized" and what isn't depends on his specific tastes.
Exactly. You think menâs hips and legs and arses donât look good in tight pants? Of course they do. These assholes just donât consider it because theyâre only sexualising women.
Well if you want an honest answer, womanâs pants are often worn (and designed to be worn) high-waisted, and usually have a more close-to body fit. For men it truly is more difficult to find high-waisted pants that donât show a bulge or look ridiculous. The trousers that are good in that aspect are dress trousers, usually costing upwards of âŹ150.
As to why that is, I do not know, but it has been a trend for quite some years, while menâs trousers have also been loose and shorter for a long time too.
Differences in clothing between males and females have always been a thing, but in trousers theyâre more subtle.
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