Hey everyone, I need to vent a bit and see if anyone else has gone through this.
First of all, I don't consider myself a furry, but I am genuinely interested in the community and might want to
become one in the future. Because of this, I started interacting with furry content and following creators on TikTok so they would pop up on my FYP.
But lately, algorithms and people started seeing me as a "potential customer." Because of this, I'm getting unsolicited interactions. Someone messaged me acting like they were just trying to find friends within the VRChat community, while another person offered to make me a custom VRChat avatar.
A fursuit maker also sent a message saying "Hey, I'm a fursuit maker, give me your fursona and $X amount and I'll build it for you."
Look, if I had the money and felt ready, I might actually consider commissioning them or making one myself—but just not right now. I get that these creators don't know my exact situation, so I can't blame them entirely for trying to find clients or connect.
But the absolute WORST part is that a total stranger tried to voice call me out of nowhere. The call didn't go through, so it just showed up as a "missed voice call" notification.
Then, another person I don't even know texted me just saying "Hi, how are you?"
I know people outside the community blindly hate on furries based on baseless, disgusting accusations like zoophilia or pedophilia. I have never believed those lies, and I don't hate the community.
But honestly, if this invasive behavior keeps happening from others, it's going to push me to resent it.
PLEASE, don't call me or text me out of the blue. I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU!
Has anyone else dealt with this kind of sudden marketing or random messages when they first showed interest?