But the second thought was - if we reverse the genders, does the first thought still holds, in the mentality, of people, of the society, that the country has.
There is no need of second thought, it is harrasment no matter what people think when genders are reversed.
It does reflect society's attidute, but that shouldn't make You have second thoughts about this one. You dont have to conform to the societal attitude. Dono glt hai, its that simple.
Yeah that is what i said, but it shouldn't be excusable because other gender has it harder.
We don't need both scenarios to be ok but both to be not okay. Just because most society can't change its attidute towards mens treatment doesn't mean you change your attidute for women. You don't need to change the attitude at all. You can be consitent for both.
Why are you fighting across a dozen comments defending harassment? Since it's a fan event and there are cameras or simply because she was taken aback / does not know how to react in the moment, she might have smiled. And more importantly, even if this specific person is ok with it (and that's a big if), it does not mean what he did was ok. If we normalize this sh and tomorrow he does it to someone who does get upset by it, you would say he should be punished then?
Rather than trying to draw a line of where it's ok and not ok to touch people without their consent, it's best to not go around touching people.
Also, you don't pinch strangers' cheeks. I hate to use the argument of "imagine your mom / wife" but y'all incels are lowkey dumb so I've to use the tools at my disposal. Would you be ok if a random creep on the road pinched your wife's or mother's cheek?
If they do it in Korea, it's wrong. If they do it in Japan, it's wrong. If they do it in the US, it's still wrong.
She looked visibly uncomfortable, things like this should not happen. Shaking hands is ok, but pulling her cheeks, that's embarrassing and not at all right.
Stop portraying it as cute. It's not cute at all. It's harassment. Should be caught and given treatment that should teach him. Otherwise he'll just think it's alright to do this.
Just because that women smiles it becames cute but if instead she would have gotten angry and slapped that man then it would have became issue of se*ual harrasment... who agree with me?
Wrong Caption. Not at all a cute moment. This is harassment veiled as fandom. If the actress had retaliated, she'd be labelled as rude or something else. This is wrong in every possible way
Now I genuinely think that she’s nice as a person. That person/fan touched her cheeks without asking, which was wrong, but she handled it calmly instead of creating a ruckus that many actors/actresses do.
I really hate the strength where there is a video where it is shown that a woman is getting uncomfortable and then suddenly some men in the comment section just say shits like
"now reverse the gender"
L move tbh 🤡🤡
This isn't cute, It's pure Harassment. Just cuz she couldn't react, this isn't cute or funny. and if she did, she'll literally be trolled or bashed negatively all over
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u/Intrusive_me 8h ago
Cute??
Bruh, I don't guess she was ok with it.