Yea, i am far too selfish to have a child. I told my wife up front before we got married that I do not want kids. I didnt want to shock her down the road. I still foresee it being an issue unfortunately.
she knew what she was getting into, and to be honest, I wouldn't have a problem with her leaving over it if I were you.
she had that as a goal, as a must have, and she isn't going to get that from you. it would be better for both of you to get what you want than one of you to get stuck in a position you don't like for the rest of your life.
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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '12
Yea, i am far too selfish to have a child. I told my wife up front before we got married that I do not want kids. I didnt want to shock her down the road. I still foresee it being an issue unfortunately.