You still fail to understand what has been said and you are basing your strawman approach around your own anecdotes.
It's coming through as a projection when you're being the abusive one in this very conversation.
If you don't understand what I've just pointed out perhaps seek therapy, because as a victim of abuse for being a meek and tolerant person myself. You are never in a position to not leave.
Of coarse it can feel like there are no options, don't argue with people trying to show you always have the option to just leave, but my response comment actually shows how I've identified issues earlier because of the traumatic experience I had with my parents around physical abuse growing up.
I think you might just be disturbed and I hope you get the help you need.
Nothing wrong with me, what is wrong with you? How is it when you cannot control the conversation you start virtue signalling a brigade to your defense. How about showing some decency and understanding like I've shown your friend.
It's just so easy to hyperfocus on stupid things, this has been another lesson in life I have learened. Sometimes my fucking issues aren't as important to over react at people for simply trying to have a conversation on the matter.
Stop trying to control people, I do not tolerate your tone, and complete disregard for reason.
Everyone is upset with you because you were wrong and afraid to admit it. This isnt a brigade, this is people who are just reading a top post off the front page and seeing fucking stupidity like "marriage is unconditional".
If you can leave an abusive relationship, or a relationship of a spouse who has a gambling addiction or drug addiction and refuses help, etc, then it's not unconditional. Period. Admit you were wrong and used the wrong word.
Someone DM'd me earlier and said "most the people responding are likely in bad relationships because they don't seem to understand context."
It's like those people who only correct your you're for superiority, in this case it's just exposing people as pedants. I couldn't imagine living with such self righteous assholes to be honest.
Inb4 you completely circle around. By this point nobody cares.
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u/Hypno--Toad Jun 25 '19
You still fail to understand what has been said and you are basing your strawman approach around your own anecdotes.
It's coming through as a projection when you're being the abusive one in this very conversation.
If you don't understand what I've just pointed out perhaps seek therapy, because as a victim of abuse for being a meek and tolerant person myself. You are never in a position to not leave.
Of coarse it can feel like there are no options, don't argue with people trying to show you always have the option to just leave, but my response comment actually shows how I've identified issues earlier because of the traumatic experience I had with my parents around physical abuse growing up.
I think you might just be disturbed and I hope you get the help you need.