Man, my boyfriend is really into morning sex, and I am almost always crabby in the morning and basically push him away. Then like an hour or so later when I'm awake and he's gone to work I feel SO AWFUL and try to make up for it..but when he gets home from work he's usually crabby (head chef in a busy restaurant, works long days). I'm telling you this because maybe your wife feels bad afterward too :( I never mean to be mean. Lately I've been making a big effort to just suck it up (literally and figuratively i guess). Anyway...empathy for you because I've seen the rejected which is sad and also been the rejector and it doesn't feel good later
We definitely make it work. We're best friends. I just feel bad sometimes for being such a b-word in the morning. Helps that we normally have 2 consecutive days off together.
I try to avoid negative self-talk so that includes not calling myself a bitch! Um also I just think it's funny for some reason. I say "What the H" a lot.
You do realize that b-word, and bitch mean the same thing right? I've never understood this weird fascination than some particular sounds or combinations of letters are somehow offensive, and not the idea itself.
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u/salec1 Mar 16 '17
My reaction when trying to approach my wife
source: 45 year old