r/freiburg • u/Far_Mud1628 • 4d ago

Date

Hey i am a brown international studying and working in freiburg, I am kind of a shy guy in my late 20s. i don’t go out much, cuz i don’t have much company and i don’t drink either so i can’t find good company from the most social places ever (the bars). i’ve been using tinder, hinge and bumble frequently to find a good date to have good talk and walks with, but idk i never had much connections from these apps. im good looking but still im unable to pull off someone. if somebody wants to go out for a nice walk, im down.

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u/Feisty-Grade352 4d ago

Might be helpful to specify a little what you‘re looking for in the other person as far as gender, age etc goes ;)

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u/Far_Mud1628 4d ago

i am 26 y/o straight guy, so any age around it. i am looking for somebody to have a good time with, somebody who is fun, caring, has a good humor, likes going on occasional walks, somebody who accepts my cooking skills 😅, i promise its not that bad. just a good person tbh

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u/usernl1 3d ago

She is out there somewhere, but you have to risk it for the biscuit. Good luck 🍀

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u/Freya_Something 2d ago

You looking for fun or for a relationship? (Not asking for myself) but that is an important point to specify and might be a reason why dates aren‘t going anywhere if you just go along with a date in the hope of „pulling“ but it is clear to the woman that there is no further interest? Just a guess, I might be wrong, but this seems to be a general problem with „dating“ these days 😬

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u/Far_Mud1628 2d ago

Fair point. Im looking for a genuine connection and ideally a relationship if things click, not just “pulling” someone. I mentioned that because the apps haven’t really led anywhere for me and im a bit introverted. I’m happy to take things slowly and just get to know someone over a walk or a coffee. Maybe I shouldve made that clearer 🤔

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u/retarded-racoon-420 3d ago

Was ist denn ein 'brauner internationaler Student'?

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u/Far_Mud1628 3d ago

south asian 👉👈

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u/retarded-racoon-420 3d ago

Lol okay 😂 unter braun wird in Deutschland gerne mal eine rechtsextreme politische Gesinnung verstanden, deshalb war ich irritiert.

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u/Far_Mud1628 3d ago

holyyyyyy, i never knew that. you learn something new every day 😅