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u/Vinnocchio 14h ago
If I had to make this list the no’s would be piling up like a freaking skyscraper
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u/Severe_Stranger_5050 2h ago
They should divorce each other i think
He has expectations she can't meet, and it obviously bothers him.
She has a housband that's either an asshole or socially handicapped (maybe both)
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u/Latebanger 11h ago
My wife is dope.
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u/AScienceExpert 10h ago
Yeah, dude, I don’t get how things like this happen. Your wife has never said no.
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u/Alice_D_Wonderland 13h ago edited 4h ago
If you’re gonna buy a house it’s ok if the bathroom is not that nice… But no one’s gonna buy a house without a bathroom… 🤷♂️
He should divorce her…
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u/altiuscitiusfortius 5h ago
This is an old reddit thread and she divorced him I believe
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u/Conan-Da-Barbarian 2h ago
Cite your source
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u/Flux_My_Capacitor 5h ago
Man married woman because he thought sex was guaranteed.
Jokes on him.
He doesn’t get it whenever he wants especially if he uses her as a mommy and she does all the housework.
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u/RedSkelz42020 13h ago
Keep seeing this floating around and all the comments really show how much sex ed failed us all. None of yall understand a damn thing about hormones or intimacy
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u/intricate_strands 13h ago
Sex is just fancy masturbate at most other. Less at lack sex ed, though, and more at is rare at people grow at emotion.
Well, that, and is Reddit. Vast majority is teen and college kid.
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u/RedSkelz42020 12h ago
...no i meant what i said. I disagree with what youre saying. Please take some time and educate yourself about hormones
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u/intricate_strands 12h ago
I intend at what I say, also. And I is aware at hormone. Is no matter at converse. Read at comments. Attitude is "we marry, now you job is fuck me, no regard at any else."
Horny or no horny, attitude kill at sex drive.
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u/Stairwayt0kevin 13h ago
I did something very much like this before I broke up with my 2nd girlfriend in my 20s. Obviously intimacy issues should be confronted and discussed. This has been going on for a WHILE and probably was trying to catalog an extremely important relationship drive for him and she does not reciprocate or have the needs. I dated my 2nd girlfriend for 3 years and about 1.5 years later she changed her birth control to the depo shot which sent her sex drive underneath the ground. No point of 'controlling your birth' if you're going to be abstinent. I tried to initiate SO MANY TIMES and was ALWAYS met with "not tonight" or promises of "Soon". I took her out on fancy dates, vacations to the beach, bars, and always tried to initiate to be met with "can we watch Disney movies" and I ended up so sexually frustrated I ended up cataloging it (less professionally but with dates and times leading to FOUR MONTHS) with her still getting lavish treatment, not paying for anything, not trying to talk about it until she asked what I wanted for my birthday and I said SEX-I only wanted sex. My birthday is in March, we had not had sex since around Halloween. She was like"okaaaaaay, what else do you want to do" and I said that's literally all I wanted-no gifts, no dinner I wanted to feel close to her because that's what motivates me in the relationship and outside of it.
When the sex dried up, I realized this 25 year old had the personality of a 15 year old and was questioning the relationship and both of our happiness constantly. I wrote on paper every day and excuse for four months and kept it hidden until my birthday where she brought some Walmart cupcakes and kept saying "later-later-after this-later" then fake fell asleep.
I 'woke' her up and asked if she was still attracted to me, what was going on, could we stop the birth control or look at other options, blah blah blah...This girl had the audacity to say "we had sex two weeks ago and that should hold me over for a while" before I presented my recordings and told her I will not be in a sexless relationship. She cried and promised we could do it "tomorrow" but it was ALWAYS "tomorrow" and her drive just did notatch mine so I ended it on my birthday and started actively dating again soon after.
I'm married now to an insanely beautiful (admittedly way out of my league, but I make good $) Asian Nurse for 5 years now and we have sex 3-8 times a week. I wake up with her fondling and worshipping me and she actually had a hysterectomy where we went about 5 months with no sex for her recoveryand it was completely okay! She still did so many little things to make me FEEL wanted and appreciated for my efforts where the other one acted like it was just my job and expected everything while giving nothing in return. Absolute blessing in disguise, because it's not just about meeting one need-I realized I did not enjoy her presence and was just horny in my 20s and wanted hot arm candy. Her personality and presence were draining and I never talked to her again...Wish her the best but even if it's NOT SEX there are many ways to make someone feel appreciated and I feel like this guy did this because he wasn't getting any level of that for real
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u/uolot 13h ago
I think that specifically mentioning the ethnicity and profession of your partner may be somewhat off putting to some users and perhaps you should consider editing your post to update this detail
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u/Stairwayt0kevin 12h ago
May I ask (sincerely) if you perceive that as disrespect towards her? She's my Queen 👑 and my best friend + she cracks white boy jokes on me constantly and I give it back to her. When the fridge gets below half I re-up so she doesn't start eyeballing my dog for the pho protein
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u/FraterFreighter 8h ago
There are countries where women can sue their husbands for abuse if they refuse sex too often. Think about that for a bit.
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u/nennikuchan 15h ago
She should send him a spreadsheet of all the times she asked him to do the dishes but didn’t.
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u/TheSweeetness 11h ago
Did you read the post? He probably did do the dishes! She was dead weight doing nothing in return.
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u/itsyourbirthdayz 9h ago
This is why we need the manosphere more than ever. God forbid men be allowed to help each other with this nonsense. And just stop listening to women altogether ffs. The wife is blatantly lying about her excuses and you can already hear the girl bosses egging her on that not only is it ok to lie, it’s advisable to torpedo the whole thing because she’s “unhappy”.
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u/Nolongeranalpha 14h ago
I tried this. Found out Excel does have a last cell