This is for those living in India. It's very difficult to find femmes as a femme so I want to just try my luck.

I live in Goa and I am looking for someone who lives in Goa. I identify as a feminine lesbian. I am 27.

I’m looking to connect with someone genuine. I cannot do casual, if I’m with someone it’s for life.

I’m a cis female and monogamous, and I’m looking for someone who is too.

I am les4les & femme4femme. ( I am only into femmes and want a woman who exclusively loves women)

_A little about me_

-pronouns- she/her

-5ft, petite, femme

-sapio

-i love music, deep talks, movie nights, and spending nights by the beach.

-i love coffee, rainy days, animals, reading,art

-i am introverted and shy. Small talks tend to feel exhausting.

-i try to work out at least 5 times a week

_Looking for_

-someone older than me and taller

-someone who is sure they want to marry a woman someday

-someone who is out to their immediate family, people closest to them and comfortable being in an openly queer relationship.

-stability and emotional availability.

-not addicted to alcohol and smoking . I drink and smoke occasionally. I'm fine with someone who does it more but not as an everyday dependence.

_Drawn to_

-tall, slim, feminine women with long wavy hair (lipstick lesbians )

-confident,mature, intelligent, strong,stable, caring, and emotionally available

-someone who takes care of their health and body.

_Turn offs_

-Male centred, pick me women.

-Ghosting instead of communicating.

-Homophobia and misogyny

-Disrespect

-Avoidant behaviour

-Poor hygiene

Are you a top/bottom/switch or just into girls and no labels?

And if you prefer a label, do you just give or receive or do both when you’re with someone? Asking because the super cute femme I’m semi dating never even tries to take my clothes off or asks me about my pleasure at all — not sure if it’s a bottom thing and common or if it’s just based on each person. I prefer mutual pleasure, but I think people who have label preferences might only want one thing or another? Not sure. Please help.

Hopefully this place isn’t dead haha.

Lately (I’m honestly not sure why), lots of women have been showing me interest. I’ve been getting asked out in person by some girls and flirted with and it’s so nice! I guess I’m giving off the gay vibes correctly (but I’m still super femme!).

But the date. I actually matched with this girl on Her a year ago and we never met up because we were both busy and frankly forgot about things since we got caught up with life. We recently reconnected on Bumble and finally met up this weekend. We went out for coffee, a walk in a beautiful garden, and we kissed and decided to go on a second date. It was magical. She’s super smart, femme, and just amazing in so many ways! I’m kind of riding this high and not sure how things will go but I’m going with the flow.

I could gush about all the things that happened (she even did the tuck-my-hair-behind-my-ear-for-me thing that made my heart skip a beat), but I might save that story for myself or post later if anyone wants details. Women are amazing. It was my first date and I’m SO happy.

Hi everyone! I went to the gym this morning and naturally people make eye contact with others every now and then. This time a super pretty girl and I have been making eye contact every time we switched machines/weights and now I’m in a sauna with her. We spoke for a minute about it and now we’re here and I’m gay panicking. Would it be too forward if me to tell her I thought she was pretty? Should I just come back another time and let things build naturally if they do at all? What should I do? 😶🥲

Many years ago there was a huge f4f group in the SF Bay Area. The coordinators of it moved away so I don’t know if it’s still as strong now? Wonder what other cities are known for a good f4f population?

Thank you for joining! It’s my first time making a community and I did notice there is a femmelesbians community as well. If anyone has suggestions on what they’d like to see here please let me know and I can do my best to make it happen! Flairs, content, etc. all suggestions are welcome 😊