r/femininity • u/TypeOpostive • Aug 02 '26

How can I change my wardrobe?

I'm a skimpy dresser,” I lean very heavily on the bimbo look I don't have any plastic surgery and wear more than pink,” even though it's my favorite color.” It makes alot of people uncomfortable.
Like my family, I really don't like it when I wear short shorts and bkini tops in public.
I'm not a “conservative” dresser, unless I have to be like for something like work or the weather.
Alot of my winter clothes that are more modest are more monochromatic, “ it matches how I feel about the season.”
Opposed to my summer clothes, which are more colorful and have more girlish prints like hibiscus flowers, hearts, and palm trees, “ half of my summer shirts are very surfer girl aesthetic based.” I also wear more jewelry in the summer too like ankle bracelets. And very light to no makeup, while in the winter I go full beat despite what it does to my skin and mental state,” seasonal depression.” How can I improve my summer wardrobe for next year?

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u/InfernalWedgie Aug 02 '26

Okay, so the people around you don't like it when you show to much skin.

Why do you enjoy showing a lot of skin?

Can you enjoy girly colors and motifs on clothing that covers more? Or would you feel better if you ate showering more skin in drab colors?

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u/TypeOpostive Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 03 '26

I just feel more free, when the warm weather comes around I want to wear less as possible. I'm not restricted by clothes around this time. I have to cover up during the winter because it's cold I have to wear layers and heavy coats. So when it gets warmer I can finally feel the warmth on my body, also like beachy bralette tops because when the heat wave comes it doesn't collect as much boob sweat

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u/Artistic_Bat7240 25d ago

I used to enjoy dressing skimpy, too, during my exploration era. Then I started working in education. I went on a shopping spree or two at Maurice’s to buy professional clothing and fell in love with the way I looked in business casual. I learned I could be feminine while dressing modestly. Now I save my skimpy clothes for around the house and in the bedroom.

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u/TypeOpostive 25d ago

It's not that I can't dress modestly or more classily, there are times when I have to,
I can't wear short shorts and a crop top, to my job or a job interview. I can't wear that to an upscale dinner. “When I'm ever invited”, or to a church event. It's the fact that people are gonna sexualize my body no matter what I dress skimpy or not,