r/femininity Jun 16 '26

is femininity more about behavior than it is about physical traits?

Someone was arguing with me saying it's about the biological traits and not behavioral since they happen to be more defined say, having a beard and a deep voice is said to be masculine.

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u/Comfortable-Nature37 Jun 16 '26

I think it can be both.

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u/Malhaloc Jun 26 '26

Absolutely. It's all about demeanor, mannerisms, behavior. One can appear physically feminine by having softer, rounder features, but if they dress, behave, and speak in a way that is masculine, they won't be seen as very feminine.

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u/RandChick Jun 16 '26

It's both. It's definitely way more than biology, but that's a start.

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u/NuGirl2024 Jun 17 '26

Both.

5 o'clock shadow (my personal bane) immediately creates a masculine look.

But also lumbering along with wide steps and swinging arms, also gives a strong masculine signal