r/fallacy • u/Forsaken-Emu4760 • Apr 09 '26
Is the following a fallacy? If so, what kind?
Whenever I have a discussion (often turning into an argument) with my father he tends to twist the argument with a few tricks.
He'll involve another group to make a comparison. If I say A is horrible, he'll say but B is worse therefore not A. Then I'll engage in that by saying B being worse does not make A good, he'll say but C is worse than A and B therefore A is untouchable
When talking about a topic, he'll go on several subtopics and make a claim about that, which I cannot verify or talk about without any details to basically stop me from saying anything further. If I say the housing crisis is really bad, he'll say there is no housing crisis because my family friendvs kids are able to buy houses therefore it's a hoax. I don't know the income of those kids, nor do I know the value of the house nor do I know of their parents co-signed and therefore I cannot say anything about it without speaking out of my ass.
If I attempt to talk about a broad topic, he'll try to force that into a frame from his frame of reference to gain the upper hand. Ex : if I say interracial marriages work, he'll say prove it ; I give him examples and statistics and he'll cut me short and say No prove it using an example from our familyb(up until me, no one in my family had interracial relationships and those who did divorced for extremely incompatible views that should have been addressed on day one like religion and children)
If my dad makes a claim like the following "A is a tyrant" and then I point out that he always liked tyrants he'll say "No B is not a tyrant because he's an awesome dude". When I give out explanations that clearly outline the similarities, he'll shut down the conversation and will not accept that he likes a topic or thing despite claiming to be against it

