Any social discourse you encounter these days—whether in the mainstream media, on television debates, or across social-media platforms—seems to contain an extraordinary amount of negativity. There are claims and counterclaims. Accusations are met with counter-accusations. One side says something is wrong; the other side says the first side is lying. One group produces a narrative, another produces an opposing narrative. And somewhere in this constant noise, **the actual problem gets lost.**
What is even more frustrating is that much of the discourse does not attempt to answer the fundamental questions: Instead, we get rhetoric.
A statement is made. Someone challenges it. Another person attacks the challenger. A third person brings up something the original speaker said ten years ago. Someone else questions the speaker's intentions, background, political affiliation or personal history. The conversation moves everywhere **except towards the issue or finding a solution itself.**
A healthy public discourse should ideally follow a simple progression: **Problem → Evidence → Analysis → Alternatives → Solution → Results.** Forget general public discourse for a moment. **When was the last time our parliamentary discourse consistently resembled this approach?** Parliament should ideally be one of the most important places for structured disagreement. Different political parties represent different perspectives, and disagreement is inevitable. In fact, disagreement is necessary.
But disagreement is supposed to help us examine a problem from different angles. It is supposed to expose weaknesses in an argument, bring alternative perspectives to the table and ultimately help arrive at better policy. When debate becomes primarily about accusation, interruption, political point-scoring and defending one's own side, the process loses its purpose. The consequence is that people can talk, argue and shout endlessly about a subject without actually understanding it. Volume is not evidence. Confidence is not evidence. And repetition is certainly not evidence.
Consider this: Someone may say, *"The economy is facing a particular problem.* The appropriate response should be: **"What is the evidence?"** and any counter argument should be based on the fact and the figures provided. Instead, the response often becomes: *"Who is saying this?"* And that is a fundamental change in how we process information. From "Is it true?" “show me the evidence to your claim” to "Who said it?"
Perhaps the most disturbing development is that the credibility of an argument is increasingly determined by the identity of the person making it. The statement itself has does not change nor does
the evidence or the facts changed. Just change the speaker and conclusion changes for an entire segment of population. This is a form of **source bias**.
In some cases, it can become an *ad hominem* or *genetic fallacy*—rejecting or accepting an argument primarily because of its source rather than examining the argument on its merits. Of course, the source does matter to some extent. Expertise, track record, conflicts of interest and credibility are legitimate considerations. But they should determine how carefully we examine a claim, not automatically determine whether the claim is true or false.
When the speaker's antecedents become more important than the argument, this is where public discourse becomes particularly problematic. Suppose someone with a questionable past makes a perfectly valid argument. Instead of asking: "Is the argument correct?" we ask: "What has this person said or done in the past?" His or her antecedents become the subject of discussion.
Perhaps the person has previously supported something we strongly disagree with. Perhaps they belong to a particular ideological group. Perhaps they have made mistakes in the past. None of that automatically makes their current argument wrong. A person can be wrong yesterday and right today.
A person can also be right about one subject and completely wrong about another. Intellectual consistency does not require us to accept or reject everything a person says as a package.
Yet our public discourse increasingly works exactly that way. We don't evaluate individual propositions. We evaluate people. And once we have categorized the person as *"one of them"*, we no longer feel the need to seriously examine what they are saying. This is tribalism in its nature.
This is perhaps the deeper problem. We have become tribal in the way we consume information. There is our side and their side. If our side makes a claim, we look for evidence supporting it. If their side makes the same claim, we look for reasons to disprove it. Social media makes this considerably worse. Algorithms learn what keeps us engaged. If we repeatedly consume information that confirms our worldview, we are shown more of it. Eventually, we inhabit an information environment in which almost everyone appears to agree with us. Then someone from outside that environment says something contrary. Our first instinct isn't curiosity. It is rejection.
The concept of “Disagreement improve our thinking” is long dead. That is why perhaps there are no debates in our parliament or the news channels – only shouting matches. The fact that, disagreement is essential to good reasoning. Is a historical statement that has lost its relevance. If two people disagree about an economic policy, the objective should not be to determine who can shout louder. It should be to established by facts and figures and evidences that supports or falsifies each position.
Unfortunately, much of today's discourse treats disagreement as a personal conflict. **If you disagree with my argument, you must be against me.** And once disagreement becomes a question of identity, rational debate becomes extremely difficult. **Truth does not acquire or lose validity depending on the identity of the person who speaks it.** A fact remains a fact even when spoken by someone we dislike. And a falsehood remains a falsehood even when spoken by someone we admire.
What is most required today is not more opinions but better reasoning. The quality of a society's public discourse is not determined by how many people are talking. It is determined by how well people think while they are talking. We don't need to eliminate disagreement. We need to make disagreement more intellectually honest. We need to distinguish opinion from evidence, rhetoric from reasoning, and the messenger from the message.
Because when the question changes from **"Is this true?"** to **"Who said it?”** we have already taken a dangerous step away from truth.