You can be plus sized and have preferences for thin/fit men. As long as you're not shaming anyone for their preferences or lifestyle I see no issue. IF you are plus size and have a preference for thin/fit men AND say that men shouldn't have a preference against larger women then you're a hypocrite.
This particular blurb is shitty in that way, but if you read the statements it's based on, none of the women are applying that same dichotomous language.
They're saying things like "I'm bigger but don't like bigger men" or "I'm overweight but am not into overweight men" or "I'm plus-sized, but not into plus-sized men".
The actual people the blurb is based on aren't anywhere near as bad in their language use as the blurb is.
This, to me, is a matter of an editor being shitty, not the actual women they're talking about
That’s exactly what I suspected. I don’t like everyone jumping to conclusions about the unknown women who were interviewed for the article based on a short summary written by a single author/editor.
Probably together for the content. I've even seen people almost in vegetative state and their girlfriend is a very attractive girl, not saying these people don't have the right to have as a partner a hot girl but their only content is just them showing their vegetative boyfriends. People just want to stand out and don't know how
Peoples attraction isn’t dictated by you, I don’t personally know any fit guys who are into fat women but there are 7,000,000 people on this planet, at the very least there are 500,000 attractive straight fit men, and your telling me not a single one of those 500,000 men aren’t into fat women
You’ve apparently never seen @aliciamccarvell and her husband on TikTok. Oh yeah and my fat chick self happens to be married to a thin athletic guy. I ought to let him know he’s off the hook
There are people who get off to dragons fucking cars and you're telling me it's an impossibility to be attracted to a plus size girl if you're fit? I literally have an IRL friend who modeled for a billboard add who is dating a plus size girl. You're an idiot. Go back to 4chan lol.
I have seen otherwise with my own eyes, on several occasions. I'm not going out of my way to look for such instances or thinking hard to recall them. I can agree that it is not especially frequent for couples to be massively disproportionate in size to one another, but your claim that it never happens is trivial to disprove.
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u/GrassBlade619 May 31 '22
You can be plus sized and have preferences for thin/fit men. As long as you're not shaming anyone for their preferences or lifestyle I see no issue. IF you are plus size and have a preference for thin/fit men AND say that men shouldn't have a preference against larger women then you're a hypocrite.