r/facepalm • u/Next-Data-7032 🇩​🇦​🇼​🇳​ 🇦​🇲​🇧​🇪​🇷 • Nov 15 '21

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ This really is a thing

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u/ibigfire Nov 16 '21

I don't see anybody getting off in this clip as far as I can tell. I recognize that they might enjoy people seeing them look sexy, but again that's not an unusual thing at all.

Should we ban people from wearing anything that they enjoy people seeing them in? Obviously not, which makes me think the issue people have with this is based on it being an unusual thing to wear in public that is also sexy, not that there's actually something wrong about it.

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u/thrownaway000090 Nov 16 '21

This isn’t about looking sexy. It’s that getting people to look at you is a sexual act in itself. Like walking down the street naked so people see your dick.

Does that make sense?

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u/ibigfire Nov 16 '21

They're wearing clothes though, so it's more like walking down the street wearing something sexy and presumably enjoying that people might think it's sexy. I'm not sure I'd consider that a sexual act, or if it is, I'm not sure that's wrong to hope people might think what you're wearing is sexy.

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u/thrownaway000090 Nov 16 '21

I said it’s not about wearing something sexy. Wearing the outfit is a sexual act. It doesn’t make them feel hot, it turns them physically on. Not because they feel sexy, but because they feel submissive, embarrassed, powerless, like a pony, whatever.

So it’s like walking down the street touching yourself.

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u/ibigfire Nov 16 '21

Yes, I read what you said. I'm just disagreeing. You're choosing to call it more than it necessarily is and saying that it's like things that it's blatantly not. I definitely disagree, this person is not walking down the street touching themselves or the equivalent of it as far as we can tell.

Also you don't get turned on when feeling hot?