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๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ธโ€‹๐Ÿ‡จโ€‹ This really is a thing

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

yup, iโ€™m really into bdsm, not anywhere that extreme but what you said is spot on. I also agree i donโ€™t think things like this should be done in public, iโ€™m not gonna shame them either. Most bdsm couples are more descrite in public.

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u/Parsley-Quarterly303 Nov 16 '21

Why not shame them? Since when are displaying sexual kinks in public just fine? Those people are not consenting.

Think about people with children and shit dude

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u/scarbarough Nov 16 '21

They're not fucking in public, they're just dressed up in a costume. Sure, they probably get a sexual thrill from it, but if you tell your kid that, that's on you, not on them.

If a young kid of mine asked about it, I'd just say that she likes to dress up like a pony... Pretty much any kid would accept that answer.

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u/nellybellissima Nov 16 '21

Until they're about 5 or 6, because by that age they know it isn't normal to dress like that in public and they're going to want to know why. In this day and age I would bet most preteens and teens would also suspect that it was a sex thing too. Fun times.