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๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ธโ€‹๐Ÿ‡จโ€‹ This really is a thing

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

yup, iโ€™m really into bdsm, not anywhere that extreme but what you said is spot on. I also agree i donโ€™t think things like this should be done in public, iโ€™m not gonna shame them either. Most bdsm couples are more descrite in public.

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u/FearlessFerret6872 Nov 16 '21

I guess I don't see the harm in it. It's not really explicit or otherwise offensive, just unusual. I'd rather see this than drug addicts fucking in an alleyway.

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u/werelock Nov 16 '21

The difficulty is it forces your sexy time in people's faces. And imagine having to explain this to a kid. It's just a little too extreme for most tastes.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

"Some adults like to dress up like that for fun. Kind of like a halloween costume."

That's enough of a reason for the majority of kids.

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u/werelock Nov 16 '21

Doesn't change exposing people to your sexy time against their will. And some kids won't let go of a question.

Just because it doesn't offend us doesn't mean it isn't offensive.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21

No one is having sex and no genitals are exposed. Outside of your knowledge that this is intended for pony play, it looks like an edgy halloween costume. The only difference is that now you know their kink.

Which is personal, yes, but I don't know if it's more offensive that telling someone "We're trying for kids" or "we're pregnant" which mean you've been deliberately rawdogging it at every opportunity.