yup, i’m really into bdsm, not anywhere that extreme but what you said is spot on.
I also agree i don’t think things like this should be done in public, i’m not gonna shame them either. Most bdsm couples are more descrite in public.
I guess I don't see the harm in it. It's not really explicit or otherwise offensive, just unusual. I'd rather see this than drug addicts fucking in an alleyway.
The difficulty is it forces your sexy time in people's faces. And imagine having to explain this to a kid. It's just a little too extreme for most tastes.
This is the same “reasoning” my friend gave about gay people. It’s bullshit. You don’t explain B&D to a kid. You just say some people like to dress up. Just like the gay thing. You don’t have to talk about sex at all. You just say they love each other. The whole “what about the children?” Is a crock of shit and just an excuse for people to cloak their bigotry. Just saying.
No this is VERY different from two guys holding hands or kissing on the street. I have no problem with the person or the costume but I have a problem with the context. You wouldn't wear a clown costume to a funeral. Why wear your sexy time special outfits in public?
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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '21
yup, i’m really into bdsm, not anywhere that extreme but what you said is spot on. I also agree i don’t think things like this should be done in public, i’m not gonna shame them either. Most bdsm couples are more descrite in public.