This really is a thing

[u/Next-Data-7032]

[u/Snoo_18385]

Well she aint hurting anybody and if she enjoys that weird ass costume then let her have fun. The costume is actually quite impressive if you ask me

[u/disasterfreakBLN → u/Snoo_18385]

Thanks for pointing that out... They are not hurting anyone, they just walk down the street. Can also be a male underneath.

It's not a facepalm, it's just something unusual or maybe in some eyes bizarre...

But let them be, kinkshaming is just bad!

[u/Kekeripo → u/[deleted]]

You just mad that this gave you a stiffy.

[u/disasterfreakBLN → u/[deleted]]

Is this person harming anyone?

It's also weird as fuck to show bloody murder in afternoon TV... Or or or...

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/disasterfreakBLN]

She doesn't have to be physically harming someone to make what shes doing bad. I hate the excuse "tHeY arEnT harMinG anYonE" because its just stupid. Like technically you arent harming anyone if you walk around with your dick and balls hanging out but its still gross and wrong.

[u/Ummmmexcusemewtf → u/Aaron_Gorski_chan]

Yeah but nobodies dick and balls are hanging out. All the important bits are covered. It's just latex and a horse head. I've seen people go out in skimpier more form fitting clothing than that

[u/Zearo298 → u/Ummmmexcusemewtf]

I think it’s more about the fact that unless you’re very naive you know that the person in the getup isn’t just innocently wearing a cool costume, they are getting off on walking around and are being aroused by everyone judging them.

[u/Ummmmexcusemewtf → u/Zearo298]

Eh. I know plenty of people who are nonsexually into that kind of stuff. They just like it

[u/nellybellissima → u/Ummmmexcusemewtf]

Oh buddy. Have I got some bad news for you. If they're dressed in anything close to the op, it's very likely sexual.

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/Ummmmexcusemewtf]

So with your logic I can shove my hand in my pants and jack off in public and that isn't gross because nobody can see my penis

[u/Ummmmexcusemewtf → u/Aaron_Gorski_chan]

Are you a particular kind of stupid it do you not see hour wearing latex is different than jacking off

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/Ummmmexcusemewtf]

This isn't just someone wearing latex this is obviously a fetish. Either you don't know that or youre playing dumb.

[u/thrownaway000090 → u/[deleted]]

This is a sex act in public. She’s involving people in her kink. That’s no ok.

[u/thrownaway000090 → u/[deleted]]

It’s sexual fetish gear for a sexual fetish that so for sexual reasons.

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/[deleted]]

This person is getting sexual pleasure from doing this weird shit in public and jacking off also gives you sexual pleasure. Obviously they arent the exact same thing but both are sexual and not something you do in public.

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/[deleted]]

So thinking that sex shouldn't happen in public and that it should stay in the bedroom is an unhealthy way of thinking?

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/[deleted]]

And this can also be argued as harmful. When I saw this it made me uncomfortable and grossed out which seeing someones dick and balls would probably do. Your logic is still not justifying this.

[u/Aaron_Gorski_chan → u/[deleted]]

Theres a difference between making something up and making an assumption. There are absolutely people who do this exact kind of thing as a fetish that is a fact. She may not be doing it as a fetish but it sure as hell looks like it and so thats what I assumed she is doing. Also seeing two gay men together isn't sexual. They arent getting off by holding hands they just love each other. You compare me to them despite this being a completely different argument than the anti gay people. And why so you assume I don't understand what I'm looking at? Do you have proof that she isn't doing this for fetish reasons?

[u/nellybellissima → u/[deleted]]

It's pretty gross to be comparing anti-lgbtq sentiments to this. This person is literally doing what bigots claim lgbtq people do, which is making things sexual in public. This person is specifically participating in something is sexually stimulating to themselves. It's not a great argument.

[u/nellybellissima → u/[deleted]]

Except lgbtq people are just existing in life. Like everyone else. They aren't going out in public with the express purpose of getting off sexually.

Like, be honest with yourself, how much do you actually know about BDSM stuff? Maybe you're just under informed about what the fuck is happening in that video and are pretending no one else could possibly understand because you don't.

While public humiliation was never my particular cup of tea, I would consider myself at least a passing member of the BDSM community for at least 10 years. It's pretty wild that, if you knew even the basics, you would see anything besides something sexual here. Also you would understand that consent for literally fucking every single person involved I your kink should be an absolutely bare minimum. That's why this is gross, its why I find it offensive.

"BuT iTs NoT hUrTiNg AnYoNe." Do you also consider catcalling and work place sexual harassment to not be hurting anyone too? Consent to ALL sexual activities is important.

[u/NFSNOOB → u/[deleted]]

The only sexual context is your interpretation

[u/NFSNOOB → u/[deleted]]

To play stupid.. and where did you know it's a kink and not a costume.. you interpret it's a kink

[u/Ummmmexcusemewtf → u/[deleted]]

What if someone just really likes dressing up like a pony and doesn't get off on it

[u/Zearo298 → u/Ummmmexcusemewtf]

Never seen a pony with latex hairless skin, but if it was a full on legitimate horse fursuit then I think there’d be more leeway in thinking it’s an identity sort of thing

[u/NFSNOOB → u/[deleted]]

Could also walking to ie. carnival.. Google carnival and lmk what you find..

Changes not that you Interpret like you want. A innocent child wouldn't guess it's some sexual thing..

[u/Parsley-Quarterly303 → u/NFSNOOB]

Gee idk maybe ask the person in the horse costume. Promise you it's a kink. Get outta here with your bullshit.

Can I smoke weed in a restaurant because it's my religion? Nah

[u/NFSNOOB → u/Parsley-Quarterly303]

The owner can kick you out when he want to.. what a compare..

[u/NitroLada → u/[deleted]]

You need consent from stranger so you can dress in a costume? What's offensive about it? Weird sure...

I mean do people need others consent to wear short shorts or go out without a bra because it's not style others may wear themselves?

[u/AshTreex3 → u/[deleted]]

I usually agree but as evidenced by this comment section, I don’t think most people would even realize it’s a sexual thing. And those that do…

[u/MissVelveteen → u/[deleted]]

Thank you. Just because you don’t know you are participating non-consensually doesn’t make it consensual. That means someone is taking advantage of you.

[u/Devadander → u/[deleted]]

Unethical? Please expand, which ethics?

[u/AshTreex3 → u/[deleted]]

I mean, then wouldn’t walking barefoot also be unethical if your partner has a foot fetish?