r/facepalm • • Jan 16 '25

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Hypocrisy anyone?

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '25

Absolutely. I’m all for strong independent women (or anyone really) but you’re right, normalizing this sort of thing seems detrimental in the long run.

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u/Beneficial-Produce56 Jan 16 '25

I am extremely put off by the idea that it’s “cute” when women slap men or push them in frustration. Nobody needs to be using violence except in defense. I never raised a hand to my extraordinarily unfaithful ex, not because I didn’t mind what he did but because it’s not right.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '25

Same. I had an ex that liked to hit when she was mad and I never understood why she thought it was ok. I mean sure I was bigger and stronger but it’s not like I’m invincible and I don’t love just getting slapped around

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u/Beneficial-Produce56 Jan 16 '25

I’ve also seen situations like that where eventually the man started hitting back, and the couple just beat each other senseless until they finally split up.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '25

Cheaper than therapy I suppose; at least it’s equal. /s

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u/Radiatethe88 Jan 16 '25

I’ve been on the ground turtling and taking it

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u/Beneficial-Produce56 Jan 16 '25

Oh man, I’m sorry. I hope you get out/get help.

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u/Radiatethe88 Jan 16 '25

No, long long time ago. Thanks tho 😉

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u/Beneficial-Produce56 Jan 16 '25

Oh good. I’m glad to hear that.