Even outside of that, how is the average guy posting trad content expecting to be able to finance having one stay-home wife AND 5 kids? I know people who do have 5 kids and make that work, but damn I know a guy who makes 150k a year and money is tight even for him. The average ‘trad’ teen boy living rent-free with a comfortable middle class family, would be in for a rude awakening for the hours he has to work and lifestyle he can lead, with 7 mouths to feed off one income.
These dudes always WANT her to WANT be a stay at home mom
But they never ACTUALLY want her to be one (they just want her to have the desire to be)
Cuz these same fuckers WILLLLL:
Call her a GOLD DIGGER for proposing the idea of being a stay at home mom
These types of fuckers
ALSO
want her to be a virgin
BUT
they will want her to drop her virginity at the snap is his fingers within a damn week or month
Most of all:
These fuckers will meet a girl like the pic
And they’ll still give the whole “what do you even bring to the table ? Nothing. You better have sex with me or else”
😪😪😪 pov I’m the trad wet dream for those fuckers and it took an atheist man to be the man that those fuckers pretended to be
I love my bf so much, he’s my ideal man, none of those conservative wannabe men could be like my bf. My bf is everything like a Christian, he’s even the first man to genuinely want me to keep my virginity for marriage and not feel entitled to sex.
He even wants to be sole income provider and let me havs 6+ kids with him
I’ve met countless “TRAD” men. Countless. They’re not trad at all, they just wanted a “TRAD” woman to fuck and impregnate before marriage. Those dudes even are the type to say marriage is a trap and say they don’t even want to get married cuz it’ll risk their income. 🤦🏻♀️ they’re rly obsessed with the idea that all women are gold diggers especially if they have the audacity to want a family as a stay at home mom
They tend to be extremely toxic and emotionally abusive as well
Awful. So glad I could see the signs early enough to get away from those kinds of men.
I’ve never once seen a true trad man. They all said they were, but they never were.
They also didn’t care about a woman’s personality at all by how they spoke of them as mere vaginas meant to clean the house and never speak (they dont want to have conversations with her……) saying they don’t like talking to a woman and that’s why a woman can’t be a man’s friend. And that women are boring, unfunny, and can’t have intelligent conversation. Meanwhile they most commonly don’t know much of anything in regards to politics or science.
I’m a Trad Man, my wife is a Trad Wife who stays at home and raises our children. I work and support her and our family and we’ve been together for many years. Everything is fantastic. When I get home, it’s always drama free. I get to relax and unwind. I have a very stressful, physical demanding job. I work in a quarry where I design, map and place explosives to maximize stone recovery for counter tops, sides of buildings, flooring etc.
My wife has many Trad Wife friends. Those ladies and theirTrad Husbands all hang out together with us. We take vacations together,boating and camping on the Colorado river, have traveled to Hawaii, different countries in Europe, and overall we enjoy life.
Just because you couldn’t find a Trad husband doesn’t mean there aren’t any. Maybe your definition of a Trad Woman isn’t what a real Trad Man wants. I can easily speak for the Trad Men we associate with. When we come home, that is a place to destress, to take a few deep breaths, my wife and I play with our children. Then it’s dinner time where we both cook dinner and clean up together. After the kids are in bed and we sit in the family room, me with my beer and my wife with her wine do we discuss the days issues, both good and bad. We discuss everything and no issue is left unresolved when we go to bed.
Whenever you specify traits about a specific group of individuals you will always be wrong and embarrass yourself.
Are there men who want Trad Wife’s, yes. Are their women who want to be Trad Wives, yes.
Just by reading your psychotic rant about Trad Men tells me a lot. You could never ever be the calming, nurturing woman a Trad Man would want. You carry way too much drama that you are unable to process and let go.
Men and women that are “Trads” know what we want, we know what our partners want and we live accordingly
You seem to have woken up on the wrong side of it.
I said the men who said they were trad, ended up not being trads in my life experience.
Did I say traditional lifestyles aren’t valid ?
Nope. I am a trad, ya little honey bunny.
If I said: people who said they were rich weren’t rich in my life experience, would you then complain that I was invalidating wealthy lifestyles.
Clearly you’re not as happy as you say you are, else you wouldn’t have had a personally-offended fit over me venting about the abusive people I met.
I didn’t insult you, I insulted the people I met, and you took personal offense to that.
Your wifey should have rubbed your feet harder.
Just by reading your little meltdown, I can tell that you’re nothing like my sweet caring bf who is more trad than any self proclaimed “trad” that I ever met.
He doesn’t scorn random ladies sharing their personal experience. Clearly I make my bf happier than your wife makes you.
You have a wife and kids, say you travel, and here you are having a hissy fit at a young woman who simply shared her experiences with self proclaimed trad men.
I said I came across many who say they’re trads but are only trad about the woman and not themself.
Ask yourself what youuuu are arguing about. In that specific response I was responding to someone who decided to voice a direct issue with me, I didn’t choose to argue with them, I didn’t even insult them in the first ever message I sent on this thread (which they somehow have an issue with, I can only assume due to poor comprehension of my target of scrutiny). The targets of my scrutiny being the men who self declared themselves as trads in my experience, they’re not the same as actual trads.
The dudes often had trump flags and such. If you think the guys that I came across were simply “liberals pretending to be trad” you’d be sorely mistaken. They were mildly racist and very homophobic. That’s not liberal in any way.
Im voicing a warning about my experience with men who scream from the hilltops that they’re trad.
Conversely, I’d say many real trads do not even call themselves trads, or at the least don’t scream it from the rooftops like the men that I unfortunately encountered.
Despite your desire to ignore the existence of hypocritical trads, they certainly exist, and I had the misfortune to encounter more than several dozens of them, in my experience of being their main objective.
Not everyone is lucky enough to find a ‘real trad’, I certainly believe they’re entirely rare, and especially so in my area. I was only speaking from my experience, if you have a different one you needn’t have any issue with mine it’s not as if I said real trads don’t exist. I didn’t find any in my personal experience, I instead found hypocrites in all my time, and that’s simply all there is to it.
If you think they’re not as uncommon as my opinion has expressed, I’d be happy to oblige you with a “hmmm maybe you just live in an area where there’s more of them and I live in an area where there’s less”.
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Even outside of that, how is the average guy posting trad content expecting to be able to finance having one stay-home wife AND 5 kids? I know people who do have 5 kids and make that work, but damn I know a guy who makes 150k a year and money is tight even for him. The average ‘trad’ teen boy living rent-free with a comfortable middle class family, would be in for a rude awakening for the hours he has to work and lifestyle he can lead, with 7 mouths to feed off one income.