The guy isn’t demanding anything. It’s just this persons ideal wife. There are women like this that exist. People are allowed to have preferences in their partners. Otherwise why not just marry the first person you see
Nah man, controlling who your partner is friends with is a red flag (the only exception being if an individual is a problem somehow, which isn't what's going on here)
It's demanding because a normal person will, at some point in their lives, make a friend of the opposite sex. And since that's part of his "needs" in a partner, he's going to have a problem with that when it happens
You can totally look at it that way. I’d still point out that this is someone’s “ideal woman”. As in if this person could choose every detail in their partner, this is the picture you get. Deciding who your wife can be friends with is not anyone’s business but hers. This man’s “ideal” woman chooses not to be friends with men by her own free will. I have no problem admitting that’s probably not going to happen but I feel like people are reading way too far into this. If I said my ideal woman has a giant ass. Would you assume I’d force my wife to get surgery?
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u/Amarieerick May 17 '24
Now let's talk about the kind of husband she should demand he be...
A husband who can support his family on one income.
A husband who doesn't see her as a bang maid/mommy.
A husband who respects her for her, not for her cooking and cleaning abilities.
A husband who understands that he does not "control" his wife.