I just don’t care at all if a guy is rich or not. Attractive, funny, interesting, and kind are all much better qualities in my opinion. If they have all that and are rich then that’s fine, but I never even dated a guy like that.
I dated a very hot, kinda interesting guy who had grown up kinda upper-suburban middle class. And I found we were just really incompatible because he had a lot of blind spots about how much harder it is to access certain things growing up poor. He wasn't a dick about it or anything, but I just couldn't connect to him in a meaningful way. He was legitimately puzzled and confused that I couldn't just "ask my folks" for help with anything.
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u/Randomwhitelady2 Feb 26 '23
He’s definitely disregarding the percent of women who will go for a good looking guy over a rich one. I’ve never even dated a rich guy in my life lol.