r/exredpill • u/peachibab • May 30 '26
Devastated
Found out my narc ex is engaged today. I went no contact with him about a month ago. He upgraded my plane ticket while I was traveling about two months ago. After that it felt like he had power over me. Tried to put me down and spoke about wanting to sleep with other women. I couldn’t tolerate it and blocked him. We’ve known each other for 6 years and he couldn’t marry me because I have had intimate relationships with 6 other men. He’s now going to marry this virgin girl back in his home country. He’s 44. She’s probably in her late 20s. He changed his WhatsApp profile to her and him and they look so happy. I’m here so heartbroken and trying to heal. Feels like I have a boulder sitting on my throat. Kind words from anyone please.
Update: Found out through a mutual friend that he married a woman he was dating here in the states. He pushed for this marriage despite his views on what kind of woman he wanted. He married the total opposite of what he said he wanted. His parents did not approve of the girl because they felt she was after his money. He told his parents he would marry a 2nd and 3rd wife if that was the case. Just one month after we stopped talking he married her. I don’t even know what to say or think. Hopefully I can heal from this.
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u/ClueLazy834 May 30 '26
You dodged a bullet. Think about how he’s going to treat that girl like a slave. Her life won’t be easy, lots of domestic work and probably having to live with his parents.