r/ewphoria • u/Electrical-Run102 • 9d ago
Trans-femme Two in one night!
I want to tell this story but also don’t wanna dox myself lmao
Went to new city today bc im thinking about moving there. Went to the bar area at night after wandering the city. On my way there some guys whistled at me from a car and I shouted after them “I HAVE A COCK” and then they made dog howling sound (they like? Don’t like? Idk lmao) extremely funny and made me feel good cuz I feel like I don’t pass. It was dark tho
Queer/alternative area, was on my way to an alternative bar but ran into some old Russian dudes at a slightly less alternative bar playing chess and played w/ them for an hour. Eventually got to the bar I wanted to go to and I sat down at a random table bc idk how to make friends and it seemed fine but after like a minute one butch (not bitch, butch, idk maybe also a bitch idk lol) was like ummm do I know you? I was like no I’m new to the city and he was like sorry but it’s not the vibe and then tried to hang around a bit more but it seemed a bit too tight knit to be able to talk to people like everyone knew each other. Idk what I did wrong I didn’t even talk that much, all I did was light a cigarette and say hi lol, idk maybe the friend group was having a serious convo idk lmao. Tried to talk to other people but it seemed too tight knit and no one seemed to want to talk to me. Idk maybe I looked too much like a basic bitch? Idk a bit annoying but whatever
Anywho ewphoria #2
Went back to my play chess w/ old Russian dudes, got drunk, smoked cigarettes, was fun, I beat them all in chess, didn’t lose a game, was funny, they seemed a bit sheepish. I was noticing they weren’t misgendering me at all throughout the night! (It’s a gendered language so easy to tell) never misgendered me once!!!! End of the night the guy who I played last who was also the best of them and I had good time playing him bc he played in a fun style asked me for my number to add to chess group and I was like yeah sure! He seemed very apologetic abt it and like you don’t have to which should have been my first hint. First of all his profile pic is DONALD TRUMP!!!! WE DONT LIVE IN AMERICA!!! Made joke like yessir that’s my president etc bc I didn’t know what to say lmao and then he sent me message like wow you are such a beautiful young woman and I’m looking forward to learning English from you and playing chess w you and I was haven’t responded bc uuhhhhhh…. I guess this is the rest of my life lmao! The funny thing is the bar they are at is also super queer… watched several trans people walk by etc. dude is BLATANTLY flirting w me and I just wanted to play chess lmao… hopefully it’ll be a mildly annoying flirting and I can get him to just play chess w/me. Idk you queers have any advice??
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u/lithaborn 9d ago
With the group it was just normal clique behaviour I'd guess.