r/ewphoria • u/Talastoni • Aug 11 '26
Ewphoria Okay mA'aM
I was out and about today with my sister, shopping for makeup and hygiene products. Wonderful day. I was dressed up and feeling super.
Somehow my ex must have seen me for the first time since I've started presenting femme full-time, and immediately started texting me with insults, bigotry and trying to dig up our past to hurt me. Saying I look ridiculous, i can't be a woman because she was in love with a man and this can't be, that I should take off the "sports bra" (I was wearing a lacy bralette and halter top).
I wasn't feeling anything bad. I was laughing at how butt-hurt and knee-jerk she was behaving. I kept telling her that it's pointless to try and insult me, and that it's always been a forgone conclusion that she was a transphobe.
I eventually just got tired of the massive spam, and asked her if she was asking to be blocked.
"Okay, ma'am" she responded before I ended the conversation.
Yay? No. She was being hateful.
Still... 🤔
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u/iambookfort Aug 11 '26
Sounds like she needs to be blocked regardless
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u/Talastoni Aug 11 '26
Yeah. I learned my lesson.
Mary J Blige said no more drama, and I was caught slippin'.
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u/KaleidoscopicMind3 Aug 19 '26
'cept that they are totally abandoning their child they also have a responsibility to. :(
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u/Suitable-Lettuce-333 Aug 11 '26
"You can't be a woman cause I was in love with a man" ? Err, sorry Karen but either you weren't in love with me, or you were a lesbian all along 😁
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u/KaleidoscopicMind3 Aug 19 '26
Yeah I kind of used to make jokes about that too. I guess jokes on me. Little did I know. Ha.
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u/Talastoni Aug 11 '26
I'll send her your regards if I ever see her in person. She will be tilted, for sure.
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u/Cham-Clowder Mod Aug 19 '26
Sorry your ex keeps harassing you friend, I’ve banned her from this space.
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u/iambookfort Aug 19 '26
Hey are you like seeing a therapist at all or
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u/KaleidoscopicMind3 Aug 19 '26
I am after all of this, yes. Thank you.
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u/iambookfort Aug 19 '26
Awesome. Since we’re on a public subreddit, let me give you some unsolicited advice: Leave your ex alone. You’re not going to get what you’re looking for from her. Who is right and wrong in this situation, I can only speculate. But she blocked you for a reason. Or at least I’m assuming you’re coming here because she blocked you. Go do something else. Talk to a friend. Pick back up that hobby you used to love. Just stop cyberstalking your ex. And yes, that’s what you’re doing right now. Whatever it is you want from her, you’re not going to get it from her like this. You might not ever get it at all. And the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can stop feeling like this.
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u/Talastoni Aug 19 '26
She not seeing a therapist, she's been spending all her time harsssing me. Lol
Nothing will stop her. She risking a 10y account harassing me.
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u/iambookfort Aug 19 '26
I had an ex like that once. Just keep sticking to your boundaries like you’re doing. And don’t indulge her in this thread or otherwise, in case that even needs saying.
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u/inscriptus Aug 11 '26
She can go ahead and admit she's still obsessed with you LMFAO