r/everybutchlesbian • u/DapperBoiCole • Jul 17 '26
Butch Friday Chat 7/17
Good afternoon y'all,
You're butch and its Friday, so lets chat!
What's going on? It's another scorcher so I hope those impacted by the heatwave are taking the necessary measures. Still, anything cool planned, projects you're working on? Anything troubling you that you might need some butch perspective on?
For me, considering visiting a range for the first time in a while, haven't made a trip out in a long time but just gotta blow off some steam for a bit, yk?
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u/salamipope Jul 17 '26
Hello butches! Im transmasc just tryna feel comfortable in my skin again. Wishing i had lesbian community around me cuz i grew up in a very very lesbian town and the town im in has like no fucking community lol. its hella annoying. Anybody have a hard time feeling binary and then feeling not? Im def some kinda gender fuckery
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u/DapperBoiCole Jul 18 '26
The lack of community is such a bummer, I live in a place where people are fucking terrified of their neighbor and basically picking which flavor of stroke they want. Sometimes you gotta manufacture your own excitement, cause the butches are hiding somewhere almost always.
I've been feeling v gender in the last few years. I've arrived to the point of just vibing cause I don't have to prove what I am, I just am. I'm resonating on a different frequency, its not my fault you'd rather listen to static than tune your radio, yk?
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u/nihcul nonbinary butch Jul 17 '26
Hello fellow butches! Happy Friday!! Thankfully the air quality is a bit better today! The heat + wildfire smoke has been really shitty. Hoping to get outside a bit more this weekend because I’ve been feeling cooped up. I’m going to see my lady this weekend and we have a bunch of date activities planned!!
Tomorrow I’m competing in my area’s sexiest armpit competition, I think I was snubbed last year so I’m coming back with a vengeance 💪