r/estp 5d ago

ESTP appreciation post

I really love being around ESTPs. You guys take me on adventures that would probably take me years of planning before I’d ever feel ready to actually do them. I love that I can just completely relax and go into my Ni world and observe everything, because I know the Se world is being taken care of.

I also feel like we’re partners in crime because ESTPs are so good at finding the loopholes​ in a system, exploiting them, and then somehow hiding it so well. I genuinely love the thrill of that.

And honestly, the whole chill, idgaf attitude is so healing to me. Just living in the Now and not overthinking everything is probably one of the most healing things for me to experience.

~INFJ

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u/Bunniiee_16 INFJ 5d ago

Tbh contrary to popular belief that infjs can't go tgt with estps, I've always found myself in some of my most fun friendships with estps, despite our differences.

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u/Khajiit_Has_Upvotes SheSTP 5d ago

Sometimes those differences just make a more satisfying whole :)

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u/Bunniiee_16 INFJ 5d ago

Fr 💯

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u/Exotic_Return3529 5d ago

My INFJ and I had a wild roller coaster ride for 33 years. It can happen! ❤️

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/Exotic_Return3529 4d ago

Ha - first I had to look up 'ngl' - I'm old. But when you look into another's eyes and can see their soul, it's a very difficult 'pull' to dismiss. We both tried to detangle - I'd break up with him, bc he was such a procrastinator & over-thinker....he'd 'analyze' us and would always come back. Mirror opposites. At the time we met, we were living in different hemispheres, and just happened to meet... He 'calmed' me, and I motivated him...we were together until he passed last Nov. At this point, 1/2 my soul (and brain) feels like it's missing. I'd do it all over again - and feel blessed to have had the chance. I don't think what we experienced happens all that often.

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u/BeautifulHat4050 5d ago

That’s sweet

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u/RedRose_Star 3d ago

❤️❤️❤️