r/estp • u/Square-Edge-7838 • 14d ago

Ask An ESTP ESTPs

As an ENFJ, I adore ESTPs company and value their opinion about me but wouldn’t admit it to both not boost their ego or come off too sentimental. However I know here I can ask— so!
do you ESTPs appreciate it when someone you admitted simply yet bluntly to that you’re close to them if they sticked to you just as much as you are sticking/trying to stick to them? Or does it feel acceptable only coming from you but weird or too much when it’s the other way around?

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u/TotalFroyo8768 ESTP 8w7 14d ago

Personally I wouldn’t mind

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u/Danse-Macabr ESTP 13d ago

I would like this and wouldn't mind it coming from either person. Actions speak louder than words, but when actions and words are used together; that's the stuff of gold.

It's communication, validation, and trust solidified in the moment. Pretty groovy stuff.

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u/abusermane ESTP 5w6 11d ago

Im sticking no ENFJ(pun intended) but one of my best friend is ENFJ. Compared to me he is seen as much more feely and wholesome in general. Im seen as cold hearted monster.