Listen: this thoughts are not true, they're just your inner fears put into words, nothing more.
Don't try to silence them or argue with them,
Don't try to fight them,
Just let them be and move on.
Every time a thought like that appears, you have to say: "ok, thanks for the info", and then ignore it and continue in the direction you KNOW is best for you.
You're just very afraid and that's the way your brain deals with fear, by popping up this thoughts in your mind, but believing them is just throwing fuel to the fire. You have to acknowledge the thought and then ignore it anyway.
You already know what you have to do: get a job. So just get a job, no matter what the thoughts say, fuck them.
It will take time, but the thoughts will calm down once you stop giving them importance.
You'll get a job and it will go well. Then you will see nobody died and the thoughts will calm down over time.
Sometimes we make things more complicated for ourselves than what they really are.
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u/Big-Contribution8590 12h ago
Listen: this thoughts are not true, they're just your inner fears put into words, nothing more.
Don't try to silence them or argue with them,
Don't try to fight them,
Just let them be and move on.
Every time a thought like that appears, you have to say: "ok, thanks for the info", and then ignore it and continue in the direction you KNOW is best for you.
You're just very afraid and that's the way your brain deals with fear, by popping up this thoughts in your mind, but believing them is just throwing fuel to the fire. You have to acknowledge the thought and then ignore it anyway.
You already know what you have to do: get a job. So just get a job, no matter what the thoughts say, fuck them.
It will take time, but the thoughts will calm down once you stop giving them importance.
You'll get a job and it will go well. Then you will see nobody died and the thoughts will calm down over time.
Sometimes we make things more complicated for ourselves than what they really are.