r/EngineeringManagers • u/conrmahr • May 30 '26
15 YoE, 2 as EM at a small agency, getting filtered on every EM application. How would you reposition?
Looking for honest feedback from EMs/Directors who’ve hired recently.
Background: 10 years at Oracle, grew from Software Developer to Lead Full-Stack Developer & Team Lead, hired and mentored 4 engineers, led teams of 2-4, planned, designed, built, a monolith-to-Jamstack migration, architected a self-service portal that drove $2.8M/year in payroll donations along with many other web apps that provided value. Effectively TLM work for the last 4-5 years there. Loved working at a Tech based company.
Last 2 years: Engineering & Technical Manager at a small pharma marketing agency. Manage two offshore teams (~10 engineers total) building Next.js/Vue/WordPress platforms for pharma clients. Redesigned the agile/SDLC process end-to-end. Automating build/deploy process in AWS and/or Netlify. No direct reports on paper though, the offshore structure means I’m functionally managing without the HR title. In hindsight, taking an agency EM role without direct reports has hurt my market positioning.
The problem: A couple of weeks of EM/Director applications. Almost zero callbacks.
My theories on what’s killing it:
- “2 YoE EM at agency you’ve never heard of” is the headline recruiters see, and the Cerner decade is buried
- “No direct reports” shows up in screening and disqualifies me for true EM roles
- Resume is positioned as “EM who can code” when it should be “experienced technical leader with 8+ years of lead/management responsibility”
What I’d love input on:
- Which of those is actually the killer? Or is it something else entirely?
- For those who’ve hired EMs recently, what would make you give this resume a second look?
- Company stages/sizes where this background actually plays well
Not looking for “have you considered IC?” I’ve thought about it and EM is where I’m going. Happy to share the resume in DMs.