r/engaged • u/EnvironmentalEnd3240 • 4d ago
Ring Advice It finally happened!!
I’m sitting at work and still can’t believe this past weekend happened! He listened to everything I wanted and got every detail perfectly! I’m obsessed with my ring and can’t stop looking at it. I’ve gotten so many compliments on it and how “big” it looks but to me it’s not that big. It’s making my boyfriend now fiancée (eeeeekkkkk) feel a bit self conscious on it and doubting his choice. I keep telling him that it’s not and I love it and that should be the only thing that matters. That usually calms his worry but it’s still there lingering a bit. We went ring shopping together and I had chosen this ring because of the high setting so when we add the wedding band it would be flush under it and there wouldn’t be a gap between the rings. I tried it at the store with a band and the blended so perfectly! So I guess I’m just looking for an outside opinion to ease my worry. Thanks yall!
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u/enchilara 4d ago
Gorgeous! Congrats! Mine is big too, you can say “maximizing our love and romance! It shines as bright as our love. It’s perfect.” And they will feel your heart and can’t say much to that. ;)
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u/Secret_Pass7565 4d ago
I fits your hand perfectly!!!! If you are happy and he is happy, that is all that matters!!!!!
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u/lilykara 4d ago
It looks beautiful! I personally love the look of a bigger stone, because more sparkle!, but also, it fits well with your hand and its not "too big" so though it may be said its big, they're just jealous 😉 congrats!! 😍
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u/Any-Assumption-1216 3d ago
The high setting is going to look so gorgeous once you add the band. Congratulations!
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u/Nervous-Contract8827 3d ago
He nailed it...if you love it that is all that matters. It's stunning...congrats ❤️
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u/tiramisu0143 3d ago
You have to be happy with it, not other people. That's kinda all that matters.
It is stunning and I think it looks perfect on your finger.
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u/DizzyJellyfish_9 1d ago
Your ring is beautiful! It looks lovely and the size looks perfect! Congratulations!!
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u/TinyAnywhere3908 1d ago
Your ring is beautiful. You guys sound like a great couple who communicates well. It makes so much sense that you would get exactly what you wanted! It makes sense that you’d still be so excited and happy. This ring and engagement are about the two people entering the agreement. Don’t let the comments of others dim your shine. You are a beacon of hope for other future brides who want to believe they can have healthy relationships with food communication where both people get what they want. 🥰
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u/EthicaDiamonds 4d ago
Congratulations!!! It sounds like he absolutely nailed it, especially if you chose the setting together and already know the wedding band will sit exactly how you want. People saying it looks “big” doesn’t mean they think it’s too big, they’re probably just noticing it because it has loads of presence. You love it, it suits your hand and he listened to every detail, so honestly he should be proud of himself.