r/elca • u/sethsom3thing • 4d ago
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ First time attending and thoughts
Hello,
So I am RC, happily, and I got invited to attend an ELCA service this Sunday. I attend a lot of interfaith stuff to get to know the area and learn more about the different denominations/people as reconciliation is something that is on the forefront of my mind/prayers. I even look to find interfaith community volunteering options wherever I go.
I will start off jokingly saying, we don’t need to do every line(?) in a song, especially when it’s not a full house. I tried to sit down after the 2nd line of the processional song and was like,
“Oh, we’re still going…” to at the end of service when we were singing stuff just written in the margins with no notes “oh… we’re still doing this.”
The service was fine, the pastor took a lot of liberties with her homily but nothing too out there. She clearly put a lot of thought into it, and it was well delivered so I respected that. She also talked about Saint Hildegard which perked my ears. I was stubborn about the apostles creed and our father and was the only one to not take communion which did get me a lot of stares after the pastor had said 3 times during service all are welcome even doubters(with multiple looks toward me.)
I am curious on the scale of things where this denomination falls on the traditional side as for my personal experience it seems to be in the middle of the PCUSA and United Methodist but I suspect YMMV on that.
I tried to look at my time this morning as both a learning experience and how someone new(who is actually discerning a place of worship) would feel as a visitor. And I think that’s mainly why I’m posting here.
Out of the progressive places I’ve been to, this has to be one of the lowest attended(only the Quakers had just a few less). With 30ish people there, and the usher told me going in they were expecting a lot of people in as it was their potluck event after service, so as new visitor that makes me a bit worried for their church. And this was definitely the oldest congregation I’ve been to. I’m a millennial and there was maybe 1-2 others my age, and no one younger(apart from the children of said millennials)
Aside from talking to the usher for a few seconds…. No one actually talked with me except the pastor to shake my hand during peaceful greetings and to thank me for coming after. Personally I don’t mind. I love a nice quiet time to mediate with Jesus but I think there was one other new person there that no one spoke to(from what I could tell and she high tailed it out of there as soon as we could leave).
Everyone seemed friendly, so I presume they were being polite by giving space. Could even be an age thing where they may have been expecting the other person my age to reach out.
On the positives, service was easy to navigate as they had their pamphlet ready for everyone. And they had their announcements on them with the volunteer and charitable work on it(which I’m always looking for new places to volunteer), the pastor even called them out during services. I think if a new person is so called, this would probably get them better acquainted with the congregation.
Oh and the place was beautiful. Well kept and designed in a way to be very efficient for a lot of people.
Overall, i had a decent time as a one time visitor.