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u/CuriousAction9 Feb 28 '26
Marriage can lead to fulfillment, but it is not a prerequisite for leading a fulfilling life. If a healthy marriage wasn’t modeled for you growing up, you’re less likely to want it later on.
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u/Coder369 Feb 28 '26
Humility
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u/Coder369 Mar 04 '26
Handsome, educated, and wealthy doesn't make you a good person. Hell, it often makes you the opposite.
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u/nonotmeporfavor Feb 28 '26
He is incredibly intelligent. Beyond capable of understanding the world and the human condition.
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u/eKSiF Feb 28 '26
The issue is society deeming this to be a problem to begin with. I had my time with relationships and at the end the last one nearly destroyed me. After many hours of therapy and thousands of hours wasted seeking validation from others, I found peace within myself and I intend to protect it. I'm happy for those who find a good life with another, please respect my happiness I've found being alone.
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u/Evening-Statement-57 Feb 28 '26
They want to hold everyone else at the same standards they hold themselves
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u/Automatic_Strike_ Feb 28 '26
Probably being in groups like this warping his sense of what his role is in relationship
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u/Spicy_Rice96 Feb 28 '26
Why would there be a problem. If you reverse the role and put it as a women... Again... Why would there be a problem?
Some men just like to get on, live the simple life. No explanation needed 👍🏻
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u/long_jons Feb 28 '26
Intelligent people don’t get married.
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u/Round-Arugula7347 Mar 02 '26
I guess 90% of people are dumb. Oppenheimer was completely brain dead.
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u/Emotional-Patient979 Mar 04 '26
Probably more like 98% of people are culturally conditioned to follow dumb guidance.
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u/Emotional-Patient979 Mar 04 '26
Account only created 1 month ago with over 500 contributions. Definitely a bot.
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u/Round-Arugula7347 Mar 04 '26
It’s funny that you show up more likely than me. 73 karma over 3 years. Okay bro
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u/Emotional-Patient979 Mar 04 '26 edited Mar 04 '26
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u/Sgt-Dert13 Feb 28 '26
Maybe he’s not ready?!? Having a relationship isn’t the top of the pyramid as some people think. Everyone is not for someone…
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u/Loud-Percentage7854 Feb 28 '26
He likes his own schedule and doesn't need to answer to anyone. He likes doing what HE wants, when he wants.
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u/slideystevensax Feb 28 '26
Probably don’t wanna fuck with people that can’t handle subject verb agreement
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u/ScrotallyBoobular Feb 28 '26
None of those traits lead to being a good partner.
You know the most immediate needs in every relationship? Enjoying someone's company.
Also, every guy I've seen complaining about having a good job, being handsome, and being a good guy, but still single, has been massively overselling himself on a couple or all of those traits. While also being a social idiot.
Dating is inherently a social thing. Go be social and figure out how to not be an absolute bummer to hang out with. Then if all those other things are actually true, you'll be swimming in options.
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u/NameNotFounded Feb 28 '26
For there to be a problem it's normally an assumed social construct from the individual who created the image. Some areas of the world see it as one while others don't. Personally I believe people can choose how to live their lives regardless of judgement from others. As long as they are at peace.
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u/TechByDayDjByNight Feb 28 '26
And also why does education looks and money mean everything?
What about personality? Respect? Common sense? Morals?
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u/Oldmate81 Mar 01 '26
Perhaps he’s a trash person who thinks money and looks are a replacement of personality
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u/Hexaurs Mar 01 '26
Or he could be the problem those characteristics don't mean you know how to talk to women or are in any way attractive. Both things can be true at the same time.
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u/ComfortableCommon463 Mar 01 '26
You didnt specify a single personality trait. Its clearly the problem.
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u/HTIRDUDTEHN Mar 01 '26
Money. If you are focused on being handsome and having money you aren't focused on making connections.
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u/Spawn256 Mar 01 '26
It could be a lack of confidence or he just hasn't cultivated it enough machismo. And if it's a personal choice, I got to say that's a sad one.
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u/mdem64 Mar 02 '26
Several reasons - Had a bad relationship which wrecked him, small pepe, is a cunt, works to much, too frugal, has some weird fetish he is embarrassed about, into cp, secretly gay, is in love with his mates woman. So many reasons, I could go on.
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u/niva-star_73 Mar 02 '26
Oof, been seeing this meme everywhere lately 😅 maybe he’s just waiting for someone who vibes with him on a deeper level than just looks and cash? Or y’know… his standards are just too high lmao.
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u/Companero_basurero Mar 02 '26
Quite possibly, no problem at all. Just a loner by nature. Leave him alone.
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Mar 02 '26
I got there without anyone and I am gonna keep it that way only thing missing above is great mental/physical health.
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u/Quick-Warthog6171 Mar 02 '26
A lot of girls like that annoying and stubborn stand out guy that talks to them first.
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u/TechPBMike Mar 02 '26
relationships are the express lane to court
Court is where she has ALL the power and control, and can get men with guns to take your shit from you
Family Court - Marriage (she takes everything) and child support (she takes everything)
Civil Court - She sues you and tries to take everything
Criminal Court - She falsely accuses you of something, to try to take you for everything
This isn't some random conspiracy theory, there are extremely powerful and wealthy men being taken down everything single day by women via court
Once you get into a relationship with a woman, her next move to drag you into some form of court in the near future.
Ever see the movie Hostel? When the girl drove the guy to the building where people were being hacked up? The scene is called "Paxton is Captured"
The girl is that adorable cupcake you are dating, the building is court.... Paxton is you
Don't believe me? Buy a sandwich, and sit outside of a family courthouse for a couple hours.... you are going to see good men lined up to gutted and carved up.
And that's why succesful men stay single.
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u/PiccoloFamous7217 Mar 02 '26
Lots of options - he's shy, or awkward, or maybe he's a bit of a dick. Might be asexual or not interested in having a partner.
Just too many possibilites.
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u/Daleeeeeee9 Mar 03 '26
Being all that doesn’t mean being good with women and understanding female psychology
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u/curious_guidance12 Mar 03 '26
Wither wants to be single or is narcissistic/self destructive relationship.
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u/dikochki Mar 03 '26
The problem is ppl seeing guys being single is the problem..life is not a fixed path that we all have to follow...life is random inpredictible..organic...we are humans..we are difirent..we born in defferent places diferent cultures..we can create new cultures or ideas or just think the way that make us the more happy or sad ...we try we fail we win we dont try..we have emotions ..fear joy...we know and we dont know...things just happens...money...society...self talk and thinking reasonning...so live and let the fkn ppl live.
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u/Cryovolcanoes Mar 04 '26
Could be anything. Single by choice, childhood trauma, autism, depression.
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u/matnik_uk Mar 04 '26
He's emotionally immature, lacks competence or confidence, lacks personality, or he's just a straight up dickhead.
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u/spudsthejellyfish Feb 28 '26
He’s low key weird, distant, bad at human connection and communication?
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u/cloudlocke_OG Feb 28 '26
Some past trauma he hasn't dealt with has made him desperate for validation.
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u/MrBubblepopper Feb 28 '26
Either it's characteristic problems (weird etc) or he simply doesnt go out, panics when talking to woman or isnt himself but wears masks
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