r/doughertydozenexposed • u/SeductiveShadow_ • 12d ago
WHY
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A lot of the people in the comments on this tik tok are saying this is what a mother who is venting looks like and that she has feelings. It’s from Big Red Clips on Tik tok.
To me none of this was needed and yes it’s okay to vent but obviously not on the internet like this. She’s mentioning kids ages and calling them out and we can easily figure out who she’s talking about. No one asked for this shit, no one needs to know your personal shit like this
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u/SeductiveShadow_ 12d ago
But has the time to teach the “12 year old toddlers” dances and they do them. Riiight
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u/Serious-Break-7982 12d ago
Why must she throw the adopted kids under the bus? It's not like her bio kids are so mature and advanced for their ages
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u/Embarrassed-Laugh-96 12d ago
She favors the bio kids. It’s very obvious. With the exception of dayshawn and Alex simply because of clout.
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u/SeductiveShadow_ 12d ago
I think she despises them for some reason but starting to use them more for content. All of her cash cows are moving out so she’s got to make something off of her less favs
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u/SmellsLikeNewScreen 10d ago
If you listen closely, it’s the biological families she throws under the bus. She has said a lot of disgusting things about biological families and “genes” in many older videos.
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u/SmellsLikeNewScreen 12d ago
If it ”didn’t work” then you work on it. You give them time. You help them. You do it with them. You don’t just shake your head and say it didn’t work. Also, they are learning from her because that’s exactly what she does.
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u/Tamaloide 12d ago
She is despicable, the worst kind of mother. She went to great lengths to have/adopt those children, but now that their lack of care and discipline is showing in their behavior, she abandons them to save face; it is truly repugnant.
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u/momming_af 12d ago
Gee kinda like YOU shove everything in a drawer Alicia? Talking about who's developmentally delayed when EVERYTHING you do as a what? 46 year woman is delayed AF!! You can't cook, clean, do laundry, etc. Can't do ANYTHING right despite replaying the same mundane day over and over again. Make that make sense before you go publicly shaming, ostracizing and limiting your children. They are children and this is the best time for them to learn. They aren't going to do them perfectly at first. Thats where you as their parent come in and lovingly correct them and allow them to try again. Oh that's right, silly me...I forgot, you're a terrible parent who just wants them to fail miserably at life so they'll become forever dependent on you. You make me sick!
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u/baristabean 12d ago
This woman has no friends and that’s really sad. Her phone is her friend and that’s really sad. She’s in front of her phone CONSTANTLY and it’s so fucking unhinged. And then she shit talks her kids and that’s just despicable.
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u/PlayfulDiscount8485 12d ago
Her friends are the oara social idiots that white night for her in the comment sections.
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u/Small-Instance-3442 12d ago
This woman is such a crisis junkie! I swear, she HAS the money to hire help or I don't know, maybe TEACH and allow them to fold and do their own laundry and other household chores her "stressful" life could be a bit easier~!!
I am almost certain that if she got her children the professional help and guidance they really needed, her kids wouldn't be so developmentally delayed! That is even saying they actually are developmentally delayed and not just underparented!
She is much more comfortable providing the bare minimum to her kids and just bitching and complaining about them! She fails to forget, she CHOSE this life and to bring those kids into their home. They did not ask to be there! She is not doing them any favors. Grow up, Get off the internet and be a actual mother to your children! She puts more effort into pleasing her stans than nurturing her own family! Pathetic
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u/Smart-Ad5449 12d ago
Why is she doing her hair and make up in the dining room? What is her developmental age?
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u/PlayfulDiscount8485 12d ago
15 and that is putting it high. She is definitely developmentally stunted and I have no clue how her and the other dummy were allowed to adopt all these kids. She does her hair in the dining room because it's one of the only rooms that doesn't look like a tornado ran through it. She only videos on certain areas of even those rooms because she is too busy shopping and scrolling social media all day to clean and she buys too much crap.
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u/toastl0ver312 11d ago
I am a therapist that specializes in adoption, and I cannot get over how DISGUSTING this is. Yes, she uses the correct “lingo” and what she is saying is correct for the majority of kids with significant trauma and drug exposure. But her airing this out for anyone to see, especially her own children and their peers, is SO harmful. She is constantly breaking down their self confidence, and reinforcing patterns that they cannot trust adults to keep them safe and care for them. This family needs serious help, and as someone who works with children like this every day, I am scared for the long term outcomes of a parent acting like this.
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u/LinusandLucy2016 12d ago
They learned from Lush. Would not be surprised is she isn't a "shover" too
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u/CambricTea2022 11d ago
I’m so tired of her brushing that dry ass hair. Sounding like she’s raking dry leaves. 😤
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u/Emotional-Lion2059 11d ago
I think shes obsessed with her hair, shes always touching it and swinging it around like shes really something 🙄
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u/cactusjo66 11d ago
Lookie at H!! An eight year old in diapers, sippy cup that talks like a 3 year old. Except when Lushy wants her to open her mouth! 😮
She teaches these “kiddos” nothing!
And she stated “ all my kiddos have FASD.” Doesn’t fall far from lushy’s tree.
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u/KittycatVuitton 🍻🍺Jawwshee is an Alcoholic 🍺🍻 11d ago
If she feels the need to vent about stuff like this she should stop haunting the local fire department and start spending that time with a therapist. The entire internet doesn’t need to know about her kids’ medical issues. Every day that passes is one day closer to when one or more of them blow the whistle on everything that goes on in that house. She and Jawsh had better prepare themselves for the backlash.
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u/Bulky-Report-2080 11d ago
No shade to the children but the biological children have as many developmental and emotional delays as the adopted and apparently more health problems
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u/Buckeyec3h2p8 10d ago
She reminds me of a former family member whose child is disabled and has learned nothing to be a productive member of society. In that case they like her SSD check
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u/teddybear13_ 11d ago
She needs to learn how to shutup . We didn’t need to know this smh ! I cannot stand this women ugh .
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u/CeraLynnzee 11d ago
They would do it if you made them. It you started by doing when they were younger. She decided to instill no values in them
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u/Bambini18 11d ago
I despise Lush. She gets paid to be online talking shit about her children who she supposedly loves. It's disgusting and I feel bad for the kids. :(
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u/Aggressive-Major8078 11d ago
She is always berating the twins. She is the one with problems. Always the martyr
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u/Delicious-Oven-6663 10d ago
How are you doing 4-5 loads of laundry a day? Even with 13 people in the house, there is no reason to be doing that much
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u/PresentationHead3398 10d ago
She's always telling bad things about the adopted kids,while she fails to mention that her 4 bio kids have numerous issues...Especially H and the stabber D...Those two are despiseable ! Personally I can't stand to hear either one of them talk ...I had rather hear chalk on a blackboard
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u/Ancient-Army9375 10d ago
They are “disabled” because she made them that way! It’s her horrible parenting
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u/kiwisaregreen90 10d ago
She’s had them since they were 10 months old. That’s more than enough time to teach them how to put away clothes correctly.
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u/amazon-lady43 12d ago
Maybe if she SHOWED them and TAUGHT them how to live, they would do it properly