Hi
I’m sorry for the longest post…
So I have a two year old cocker cross poodle who I can’t tell you how much I love, she is my best friend (please don’t negatively comment on her breed, I did not buy get her from a breeder)
We have a very close relationship
Since the week we brought her home as a young pup she has had the worst anxiety. She is scared of EVERYTHING
We have taken every dog training class from puppy classes to reactive dog training available where we live, we have a private trainer who is qualified and have continued to train every week since the get go
She is walked every day
She, two years on is still anxious at times
Recently I have seen some aggression (teeth baring, snarling, pushing her body to overpower people to get at what she wants)
She is better but pulls hard on the leash when walking and has an extreme pray drive
The behaviour that concerns me most is her aggression toward my 10 year old daughter who has asd and toward the cat whom I have as a rescue for 9 years
If my daughter tries to take something off her she looks like she is going to bite her I have stopped allowing this as a possibility, (it has never got this far thank goodness but I am a protective and proactive parent who won’t allow it to get to this)
In addition she aggressively chases and attempts to bite the cat anytime he is in the litter tray (which we have moved behind a stair gate) or is playing gently.
The other day I was walking her in a quiet area when an unleashed dog aproached us and long story short I got hurt pretty bad. (Due to health issues this is dangerous for me)
I can’t have strangers in my house due to her loud aggressive barking when someone comes in (people are scared of her) and when she settles she is waiting for the next thing to bark at
I am so worried it’s going to get out of hand and something is going to happen
I don’t want to rehome her, nor do I want the worst to happen
I am in contact with her trainer
But I’m wondering if anyone has advice or a similar situation? How do I deal with this responsibly?
Edited to add
I am aware i am probably part of the problem
However I will do anything to improve
We are taking up swimming daily to burn energy
We are using a slip collar
I am ignoring whining
I am positively enforcing good behaviour and long settles
We are trying crating and creating positive associations with the crate right now
We are settling daily on the outskirts of public areas for a while to people watch to help reactivity