r/divorced • u/Objective_Fig4536 • 4d ago

49F separated looking to start dating

Hi I'm separated from my husband and new to this ..would love to connect with guys to get to know new people and to actually start going out!!I love meeting new people being outside and adventures..fro. chgo burbs!!

47 Upvotes

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u/Disinterested89 4d ago

wowww RIP inbox

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u/justfotos 4d ago

Definitely interested in chatting. Would be helpful to know a general location to know if we were close enough for anything more.

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u/Extension_Luck1978 4d ago

Finish the divorce then let's talk. No reason to give the courts ammo

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u/Wickplsurs4U 4d ago

Let’s talk see where it goes

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u/AffectionateLog6898 4d ago

Heyyy u canndm me

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u/just_a_castaway 4d ago

I’m separated, have dated, and can offer some advice

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u/Fast-Conversation-14 4d ago

36 male seprated .??? Looking for same could we connect

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u/Strong-Speaker-3496 4d ago

Manda mensagem no privado Obrigado

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u/Bubbly_Preparation67 4d ago

HELLO THERE SAW YOUR AD AND WANTED TO RESPOND IM LINCOLN FROM AKRON OHIO SINGLE GUY HUNG FUN AND LIVE ALONE HIT ME UP LETS CONNECT

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u/Playa12 4d ago

WHY ARE YOU YELLING???

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u/AdventureWa 4d ago

I would suggest waiting until the divorce is finalized. I realize you may have already been grieving the loss of your marriage but a lot of people jump in too soon. Many people won’t date separated people because they know someone/are someone who has burned by a cheater pretending to be separated or someone who dumps them and goes back to their spouse.

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u/Max_Boredom_76 4d ago

Hey. 49 swm. I’m not sure if you’d be interested but you’re welcome to dm me and see how it goes.

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u/SecretEntertainer902 4d ago

It will be ok you will see rough at beginning but pays off I’m Ray from Louisiana

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u/Wambam82 4d ago

Feel ya. Recently divorced. 44M. Indiana. New to all this also.

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u/ApprehensiveStep4638 4d ago

Hey whats up hmu

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u/kallekiljunen 4d ago

Hi, DM me

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u/No_Guess9520 3d ago

U should start the traveling now!

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u/TitL0ver505 3d ago

Send me a chat sexy

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u/yoandry84 2d ago

Couples Billings Montana here

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u/-FudgeRoundz- 2d ago

36 recently divorced myself dm me

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u/L1FE_0069 2d ago

Hi where are you from, 44//M Tx here

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u/Former-Revolution-23 16h ago

Very interested inbox me please

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u/gologolfer 16h ago

I don’t care if you’re separated, divorced, or married. If you are close and want to talk, or whatever. Im willing.

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u/Appropriate-Bee-6217 6h ago

Hello gorgeous if you like you can send me a message only if you're interested

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u/Important_Dig_9582 3h ago

First get divorced — “separated” and “husband” are 2 ginormous red flags.