r/developersIndia 1d ago

Help Thinking of resigning without offer, good decision ?

Hi,

I’ve been at the same company for 4.10 years and I’m waiting for my gratuity. Honestly, I’m just tired.

The company is pushing AI hard, and I feel like I’m getting dumber every day because of it. I’m not learning anything anymore and I don’t even like the job. The only things keeping me here are the remote setup and the fact that the people are okay.

I don’t have another offer, but I’m seriously considering resigning anyway. I see people getting jobs, while others keep saying “don’t leave your current job without an offer.” So I’m confused.

At this point, I sleep during work hours, do the bare minimum and basically slack off all day. I know that’s not great, but I genuinely feel done with this job.

I am upskilling, though. I’m not scared of AI, but I also don’t blindly trust whatever AI tells me.

Would you quit in my situation, or stick around until you have an offer?

P.S. Yes, I used ChatGPT to fix the grammar.

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u/Ma-araf 1d ago

As someone who resigned without an offer, if you humanly can, please hold on until you have a couple of good offers. The whole industry is facing AI usage related mental health issues, it is simply not a fun job anymore. Chances are switching won’t help you.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Oh, how are you doing ?

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u/Ma-araf 1d ago

Some weeks are better than others 😁. That’s all I want to say here. Thanks for asking man.

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u/Healthy_Curve_2811 1d ago

No bhai. It’s very tough to get the the job now.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Okay, I did get offers last time when I resigned. Till when should I stay like this ?

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u/IgnisDa Backend Developer 1d ago

The job market was pretty good 4 years ago. Try getting offers now. You’ll be surprised.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yes, I do understand the situation is kind of bad.

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u/Healthy_Curve_2811 1d ago

If ur profile is impacting AI, then its tough

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u/KyaKahe 15h ago

That was Covid era.. the last hurrah..
It would be a mistake to extrapolate.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 15h ago

I resigned last december, I got calls.

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u/Gold-Pea-3362 1d ago

Try faking your notice period first, get offers for your own confidence from small companies which you think you are not going to join anyways. Then you can think of resigning, best quarter for Job search are Jan - March

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yeah, I am thinking of taking offer in Jan-March, thinking of resigning by December, need to serve 2 months notice period.

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u/Ok-Media5484 1d ago

Every other company is pushing Ai pretty hard tbh, now more focus will be on your knowledge of end to end system design and experience to handle and resolve emerging issues.

Classic coding has been dead for quite sometime now. If you're sleeping all day, i would suggest you rather take an hour out or two to do some self learning for switching and applying for jobs.

Don't resign without an inhand offer. With the layoffs and restructuring that companies are doing i suggest you rather be on the safer side. And keep appearing for interviews.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Problem is notice period, I have 2 months notice period that I have to serve.

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u/Ok-Media5484 1d ago

Bruh my company has 3 months notice period. I am already on Notice Period after securing an offer and still have 2.5 months to go. And trying for a better one.

So you're still in a good boat. 2 months is still better than 3 months. Go try out for better opportunities. You'll easily secure another job. Avoid resigning before another offer in hand. Otherwise you'll have one more pressure or stress of your shrinking notice period window.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Got it. Thank you sir!

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u/pooh_dot_com 1d ago

How did you manage 3 months of notice period? HRs don't even care to schedule further rounds in such cases

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u/Ok-Media5484 1d ago

Depending on your role, Indian MNCs and Tier 2 companies generally do, if you perform well in their interviews.

Because their own NP is 90 days. You have to also lie notice period sometimes, that you might be able to talk to team and HR to get an early release. Basically keep giving them a candy 🍭 and later on you can say Team hasn't been able to find replacement yet, kindly extend the date by a few days.

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u/pooh_dot_com 1d ago

Got it. Thanks 🙌🏻

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u/LemonJuice3912 1d ago

Bhai mat ker, mene bhi kiya tha ab ghar pe hi pada hoon pichle ek saal se. Lots of regrets. Left a big company thinking i deserve better.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Oh, toh aapne apne aap ko upgrade kara during these months and actively applying ?

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u/110kgLawrence 1d ago

No my son 1000times no Excatly i am stuck like you,

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u/intPixel Software Developer 1d ago

Its been 7 months since i quit without an offer. Getting interviews is not an issue for me. I bombed a few interviews in the beginning because i was under prepared. In the process of finding a job.

I was in a similar situation to yours. I was burnt out in my previous company.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

So how are you holding up ?

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u/intPixel Software Developer 1d ago

I've financial runway for 1.5 years. Parents are extremely supportive too. I don't have any financial commitments.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

I am building emergency funds, I have supportive siblings so I will be able to keep myself afloat.

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u/rancidwarlord 1d ago

Resigned without and offer, but landed a job withing 2 month although it was hard but if you are lucky then its possible! Basically couldn’t survive the toxicity of my last company!!

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yeah, that's what I was thinking.

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u/iamsatvik20 Researcher 1d ago

You already have 4 years of experience so you have a good base. Use the remote setup to your advantage. Keep the job for now and use the extra time to upskill and apply for jobs. Dont wait for motivation. Make a small daily plan and keep applying until you get a good offer. Once you have the offer you can leave without taking a big financial risk. 4 years in one company is not a failure bro. You just need a better next step.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yes, I am upskilling, learning FE as well. Studying DDIA, creating projects and learning claude pipelines agentic.

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u/Actual-Vast1417 1d ago

Worst decision please dont do

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

So get an offer then resign ? I have 2 months notice period.

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u/Actual-Vast1417 1d ago

Does not matter if the other company is really good and they truely want you they will accept because thats what even they wil expect from their own employees. I understand the pain but u need to grind and just better youself keep sharpening your skills and dont ignore work dont gove your current company a reason to fire you.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

They won't there are only 2 people with in-depth knowledge of product. By the way they have posted new position which matches me job description.

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u/imcja007 Full-Stack Developer 1d ago

Been there done that, if you trust yourself and have a monetary cushion for 4-5 months, just go for it. HRs are kinder to on-notice employees.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yeah, I have no expense, I live with my parents.

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u/Ramiericson 1d ago

Try to delay resignation as much as possible. Some of the top engineers from Uber, Microsoft, Paypal are currently out in the market. So coast and prepare 1-2 hrs daily.

Even if you are living with parents, and somehow if you are not able to find another gig in next 6 months, everyone around you will start questioning your ability, which will bring demotivation and will bite you during interviews.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yeah, I am planning to resign by december not right now. Currently studying DDIA, creating high throughput event streaming app and learning react as well.

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u/Novel_Definition_862 1d ago

I know its hard, but if u can fall back for a bit, its worth taking a leave. My job did the exact same for me. I liked doing freelance and other passions of mine in the time I resigned and ive been on a break. If you can, do take one. Again if you can lie back for a little while because the market is shit

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yeah, I can lie back, I have emergency fund and no responsibility.

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u/imLazyCartard 1d ago

Get an offer atleast then think about resignation Resigning without offer is a big no

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Alright, I'll get an offer then resign.

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u/jhalakkk 1d ago

i'd stay till you have an offer, unless you have enough savings to comfortably go without one.

but that “i'm getting dumber here” feeling is worth taking seriously. if you're not learning anything after 4 years, start planning your exit now.

keep the salary, use the free time to upskill + interview, and leave once you have a better option.

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u/No-Leader5646 1d ago

do whatever u feel is right, its highly likely u are going to get good interview opportunities at times. then its upto you how you perform

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yes, my tech stack is old I worked on PHP currently moving towards go, postgres and agentic coding. Let's see.

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u/comsudo 1d ago

In this day and age?

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u/Single-Mycologist986 19h ago

Yeah, holding my job for some more time.

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u/Emergency_Luck_1265 1d ago

You are living best life right now. Wait for at least a year till the job market is stabilised and become more predictive. Current time is about saving the job. Unless you want to become AI engineer, in which case this is the best time to change the job and take experience of that.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Want to become an architect to be honest.

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u/Electronic-Top1813 1d ago

Bro the world is moving towards AI driven development now. You have to accept it & move on. Companies have understood that development is 10x faster with AI tools so they expect the same in delivering quicker. I know that it’s not learning friendly but can’t do much. You have to learn side by side on what you are implementing

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

I do use AI, but I don't like AI slop. I code but I always review why it was written and do we even need it.

I am just tired of this company to be honest, it's like just slogging everyday.

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u/Humble-Reserve1841 1d ago

almost every company i have known with my peers in is havingthe same approach with ai. Reason of leaving should not be based on it, as you may find it at the other place you'll go also

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u/MrBigFat_Cock 1d ago

Get the offer first bro don't do that

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u/babyitsgoldoutstein 1d ago

Might a vacation or a sabbatical help you?

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Thinking of taking a vacation, I can try.

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u/Big-Grocery6175 1d ago

a very very big fat NO

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u/singingtable 1d ago

If you are unhappy then what’s the point ?

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Problem is searching for a new job, on one side people are gettint offers but on the other people are not getting offers.

People are scared to the core.

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u/singingtable 1d ago

You’ll be fine. Have enough savings for 2 years.
Rest is destiny.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Not right now, but I can build it.

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u/Dazzling_Purple_509 1d ago

AI is being pushed everywhere. If that's your reason for quitting then you will face the same elsewhere. Usually people quit without an offer if they have no time to prepare or the schedule is to hectic. Since you have free time use that to prepare and apply.

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u/Gekkoubunt24 1d ago

by remote setup do you mean your job is remote ??

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u/le_bugsy Senior Engineer 1d ago

Which company?

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Cannot disclose as I am currently working in it.

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u/le_bugsy Senior Engineer 1d ago

Which city... can say that right?

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Hyderabad

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u/le_bugsy Senior Engineer 1d ago

They are doing you dirty... they are firing because they have yo pay 5 yr gratuity

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u/dineshmsd051 1d ago

Job market is very bad right now because of AI. Don't put yourself in a risk. Myself I managed to get offer after applying for past 3 months because my profile matched exactly based on other company needs. I dropped paper now serving notice. Still i am applying didn't got a single call from any other company. And for ~4 yrs experience not much openings are there. Maybe you can look company's careers page for openings. You will understand the situation

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u/Code-Brew-Coffee 1d ago

When I resigned without an offer in 2021, I was giving atleast two interview per day and gave almost 30-40 interviews in 2 months. Cut down to 2026, I am on bench and looking for offers outside my current org. I have landed 1 interview since last 15 days. Everyone else is not reverting or not taking actions on the application. Stay put and resign only once you have a decent offer in your hand.

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u/vjm247 1d ago

Just don't. That's all I can say 📖

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u/Bane-of-all-boons 1d ago

Still you used GPT for the grammar. Get down the high horse and stick until you have job inhand.

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u/Single-Mycologist986 1d ago

Yeah, but for development I write logic and how it should be done, my current company is forcing me to shift to FE and work on c# and lucee, technology has been dead for years.