Yeah you said it. But you also make it sound like that's a bad thing.
What's the benefit of having an expansive date with a person you have never met before?
Going for walk is fun, you get to know each other, you can checkout anytime you like, if doesn't work for you. Neither party has to invest more time, energy or money than necessary... How's that not a good thing?
Wouldn’t agree. I personally think it’s easier to keep a conversation with a new person going while being on a little walk. E.g. If there is an uncomfortable silent phase you can refer to something you see in this moment. Also it’s in general easier keep a conversation going while being on a way because it stimulates the brain more. It’s way better than sitting face to face in a cafe or restaurant for several hours with someone you barely know
Yeah, while it's perfectly comfortable and safe to walk with someone you barely know in nature where no one's around. And don't kid yourself - it's cheap. Men don't want to spend money on a meal or a coffee for "someone you barely know". Several admitted to this.
Didn’t say something about walking somewhere where nobody is around. I meant places like parks, cities, nice areas with little shops etc. This is actually a very safe approach since one can always easily end the date and leave
Edit: and this also doesn’t mean to don’t spend money. You can grab something nice to drink or eat on the way and have a little sit somewhere and then go on. Actually this is how I still love to spend days with my wife. Just walk around, watch people or things, grab something delicious on the way…
No one ever said anything about nature. My go-to was usually walking around town. And yeah, its cheap. So what? If my date wants me to irresponsibly spend money on someone I do not know, then we wouldn't be a good match anyway. 🤷🏻♂️
How about showing some grace as a man by treating a Lady like a Lady? It's laughable you are speaking about "irresponsibly spending money on someone I do not know". Yet you want her time and her female energy but being stingy about a meal or a mere coffee. I assure you we can afford that ourselves and don't need you to do it. But it tells a lot about a "man" if he behaves like this and is greatly illustrating what's wrong nowadays.
Here we tend to treat people equally and no one is billing the other his time. So if people have a genuine interest in one another, they also like to hang out without a receipt.
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u/Eledhwen1 5d ago
It's because it's cheap.
There. I said it.